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December 8, 2012 6:34 AM
I kinda heart beer bellies. Just sayin'...
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December 8, 2012 6:40 AM
How "fat" are we talking? I like men who have meat on them. I like a tall man with some girth. What I don't like is someone who is so fat that they have zero ambition in life and can't do more than sit around and watch tv and play video games. My exhusband was 6' and 350 when we met. He wasn't really that "fat", just a really big man. But as time went on, he just became lazier and lazier and packed on at least 75 pounds. It got to the point where I was no longer attracted to him, not because he was unattractive, but his laziness made him unattractive. I can handle a big man. I can't handle a lazy man with no ambition or motivation.
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December 8, 2012 8:47 PM
I actually am attracted to chubby, big guys, but sadly they've never liked me. I have always dated skinny guys oddly and with my last relationship, he helped me realize losing weight and being healthy was important. I was 100 pounds heavier than he was.
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December 8, 2012 11:39 PM
So...are we talking "big" or obese? There's a huge difference for a lot of men and women.

Me, personally (and it may sound hypocritical at my current weight), I won't date someone who is obese at this point in my life. I have before. However, I am "recovering" from a bad relationship with food. The last thing I need is an enabler. That being said, someone actively trying to get healthy would be another matter.

I don't like super muscle-y guys, either. Happy mediums, anyone?
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December 9, 2012 12:24 AM
I would't date someone fat because ..its not attractive to me and because it shows they don't care about themselves imo
December 9, 2012 12:29 AM
I would have dated a fat guy. They didn't ask me out either.
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December 9, 2012 12:31 AM
don't they?
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December 9, 2012 12:35 AM
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I wouldn't actively seek out skinny, skinnyfat, chubbyfat or "fatass," but I have dated damn near all of them. If I could pick it would be athletic or built-fat.
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December 9, 2012 12:36 AM
Everyone's different... Personally, I've never been even remotely attracted to "fat guys". To me it says slob/unhealthy, harsh but true. If I want to live a healthy and active life, I would want someone who shares the same outlook. Also, I just don't find the chubby look very attractive..It's different for the people who are actively doing something to change (that's why we're all here!).. but for those who don't see it as an issue at all.. That's a big no no in my books!
December 9, 2012 12:40 AM
I don't date morbidly obese guys but a lot of guys I've liked or have dated have been the D-Line football player type, as is my partner now.

In the above picture, I usually go with builtfat. lol
Edited by kellyemontana On December 9, 2012 12:42 AM
December 9, 2012 12:48 AM
So why does only the "Chubbyfat" guy have hair on his chest - am I condemned to be this shape forever - or until or unless I wax?
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December 9, 2012 1:02 AM
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So why does only the "Chubbyfat" guy have hair on his chest - am I condemned to be this shape forever - or until or unless I wax?

Because he, so obviously, cares nothing for himself that he can't be bothered to spend his every waking moment 'manscaping' Who would want that lazy piece of garbage. *****sarcasm alert****
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December 9, 2012 1:10 AM
I dont date men with a BMI over 25. A man with an unhealthy weight will more than likely have health problems down the road associated with the weight. There is no changing that for me.
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December 9, 2012 2:45 AM
there is something great about everyone.if i were single and out somewhere and an overweight guy was coming on to me..... you never get a second chance to make a first impression... so lets just say he better say the right thing and not be a SMART ASS!!! i would never judge a book by its cover til i read the opening paragraph on the inside!!! he could be the sweetest most gentle of giants and you would be tossing the potential for a happy life because of weight???? so wrong!!!! if i could be treated like a queen and love to reciprocate back i say go for it.
December 9, 2012 5:25 AM
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I wouldn't actively seek out skinny, skinnyfat, chubbyfat or "fatass," but I have dated damn near all of them. If I could pick it would be athletic or built-fat.



Mmmmm built fat.
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December 9, 2012 5:26 AM
money
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December 9, 2012 5:29 AM
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money

Bwaaaahahaha
Edited cuz I forgot to order. I'll have a large built fat please. With money ;)
Edited by hmuh On December 9, 2012 5:36 AM
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December 9, 2012 5:31 AM
The same reason why guys don't date fat women
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December 9, 2012 5:35 AM
QUOTE:

QUOTE:

money

Bwaaaahahaha


Hehe, well I didn't read all of this so I'm sure someone else must of said it..

The real answer would be just be yourself..work on being healthier..be confident and ask girls out. Ask a variety of women out..not just the 10's if you aren't a 10 please realize that there are lots of girls out there that don't really get hit on much and would be happy to be hit on by men..and would easily over look size if you are fun, kind and confident.

Also Money doesn't hurt seriously study hard..get a good career and work on your personal fitness...you'll have women chasing you.
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December 9, 2012 5:38 AM
All men who are funny, intelligent, civilised, compassionate and kind are attractive. My husband is all of the above (perhaps not always at the same time) and I love him dearly. We were both very much smaller when we met, but we got fat together.....and we still dig on each other, even as we try to lose our extra lbs and recover our former glory.

I did go out with a fat train driver once. I was intrigued by his piercings.........

To the OP trying to get the girl........dress nicely, be smart and cool. Be a little bit aloof, but try to engage her in casual conversation. But if she doesn't like you honey, she never will......go spend some time with someone who DOES like you!
December 9, 2012 5:39 AM
Ya, another guy on here said it best... In all honesty, it's not so much the looks, but the way you approach the woman. Be confident, respectful, and genuine. That's what we're all looking for, right?
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December 9, 2012 5:41 AM
I've had two larger boyfriends.
My currently one is close to 300 pounds. (Going on three years together and he's only gotten fatter. lol -.- ) And even though I never knew what the other boyfriend weighted I'm sure ti was also close to 300 pounds. So I'm not sure why girls don't date fat guys cause I sure do!
December 9, 2012 5:42 AM
depends on the women. I never cared as long as my boobs stayed bigger.
December 9, 2012 5:44 AM
QUOTE:

Ya, another guy on here said it best... In all honesty, it's not so much the looks, but the way you approach the woman. Be confident, respectful, and genuine. That's what we're all looking for, right?


^ that, that is right!
December 9, 2012 5:46 AM
My husband was high 300's when we met, and is probably between high 300's and low 400's now.

I love him dearly, and am waiting for him to be 'ready' to do this journey with me. we have done this over and over (dieted etc) for the past 18+ years we have been together.

These kinds of questions baffle me. My question to you OP - and seeing as how we are on page 10? I think it was of this thread, so I may have missed this post already - will YOU date a woman who is as overweight as you? i.e., if a man is 100 lbs overweight, and is sitting around feeling all depressed because women with model bodies won't give him the time of day, I have no sympathy.

You should never judge or expect the same treatment from someone, that you don't give yourself. i.e. I'm guessing you're not opening your selective pool. I could be wrong, and I hope I am (I've scanned the pages of this thread so i may have missed this being addressed)
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