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November 16, 2012 5:59 AM
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Have you considered creating a spreadsheet to track your friends list? Perhaps an Access database with custom reports that you could run each day to see who may have deleted you?


Access ain't a DB. This makes the tiny sysadmins cry.


laugh laugh laugh
November 16, 2012 5:59 AM
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Have you considered creating a spreadsheet to track your friends list? Perhaps an Access database with custom reports that you could run each day to see who may have deleted you?


Waste of time, especially depending on how large the list is

It's possible he might have been joking....
  10095468
November 16, 2012 5:59 AM
CArried.
November 16, 2012 6:02 AM
I delete people off my MFP list when they don't log on for a month. If you aren't logging in most days, then you aren't really committed to making a change.
November 16, 2012 6:03 AM
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I don't care when I'm deleted, but I want to know who deleted me because I don't like unsolved riddles. When a friend is added, a post appears on profiles. I think it would be great if it said something like "Crystal_Pistol as been deleted by Jane."


I think this is actually not a bad idea.

And anyone who thinks it - or you - are lame is just a hater.
  28442702
November 16, 2012 6:03 AM
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I don't care when I'm deleted, but I want to know who deleted me because I don't like unsolved riddles. When a friend is added, a post appears on profiles. I think it would be great if it said something like "Crystal_Pistol as been deleted by Jane."


Oh yes, this could be fun.

I also think that you should get notified each time someone clicks "ignore user" under your profile pic. That would make my effing day. laugh
  30527079
November 16, 2012 6:03 AM
Bang your head on a wall. Why worry about it.
November 16, 2012 6:03 AM
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i give ppl a week with me encouraging them on their posts and if they never encourage me i delete them. i dont see the point in me being supportive with no return


same thing here^^^
  5955126
November 16, 2012 6:05 AM
You deleted me. I hustled to get the drinks out. Sadly i suck.
November 16, 2012 6:07 AM
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I don't care when I'm deleted, but I want to know who deleted me because I don't like unsolved riddles. When a friend is added, a post appears on profiles. I think it would be great if it said something like "Crystal_Pistol as been deleted by Jane."


If you're unable to tell who deleted you, then why does it matter? Clearly that person wasn't important to you and you to them.

Besides, this would just start flame wars. I deleted somebody and like 2-3 weeks after I deleted her I got hate mails. If it takes you this long to realize that I deleted you, then we were just a number on each others friends list and nothing more.


I agree with this. I delete people quite often and I'd rather they don't get a notification for that and just find out eventually or maybe not even notice at all.


Seconded
  9049388
November 16, 2012 6:08 AM
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If you're unable to tell who deleted you, then why does it matter? Clearly that person wasn't important to you and you to them.

indeed.


Couldn't agree more. If people are making databases of their MFP friends they must have way too much free time


Could that time be directed better into workouts?
  2961665
November 16, 2012 6:08 AM
Yes...more drama. That's what this site needs!

If you can't tell who deleted you, then it shouldn't matter anyway.
November 16, 2012 6:10 AM
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Personally, I would rather not have any notification at all. I don't need MFP to notify me every time someone thinks I suck.


hahaha your funny. Exactly what I think as well. Why would you want to know someone didn't like you enough to keep you as a friend? I will also be rapping myself over the knuckles later for further punishment....
November 16, 2012 6:10 AM
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I don't care when I'm deleted, but I want to know who deleted me because I don't like unsolved riddles. When a friend is added, a post appears on profiles. I think it would be great if it said something like "Crystal_Pistol as been deleted by Jane."




HAhahahaha.. this is soooooo Unimportant. LOL.. laugh
November 16, 2012 6:11 AM
Oh yes, let's make it even more detailed please..

"You have been deleted by ___. They only added you to steal the hot guys from your list."

"You have been deleted by ___. They can't stand the songs you keep posting."

"You have been deleted by ___. They never really liked you that much in the first place."
November 16, 2012 6:11 AM
QUOTE:

QUOTE:

I don't care when I'm deleted, but I want to know who deleted me because I don't like unsolved riddles. When a friend is added, a post appears on profiles. I think it would be great if it said something like "Crystal_Pistol as been deleted by Jane."


I think this is actually not a bad idea.

And anyone who thinks it - or you - are lame is just a hater.


Apparently I'm a hater. I think the idea is good - but I still think the OP seems lame from her responses ;)
November 16, 2012 6:12 AM
When I first joined MFP I couldn't understand the whole deleting system at all as I thought it was very mean, 12 months later and if you are not logging in or taking things seriously your a goner but I do send a general email giving that person the chance to re-add me again if they want. I know everyone on my friend list and like to be supportive when I can. I don't comment on the whole 'you have kept under your calorie' goal etc but I do if they have lost weight or if they are struggling. I have had people delete me and not send an email or let me know but I haven't batted an eyelid. Their loss at the end of the day. I had one person email me as I was going through a rough time back in September and it taught me a lesson on who my 'real' friends were, she said she was deleting me because she couldn't handle what I was going through as for once she was not in the limelight. Two months later and I am pushing myself every day with the help and the support of the other 231 people on my list. If you give support you get support and I cherish each and every one of my friends because they have been with me through the thick and the thin and it takes a hell of allot of time to keep up with everyone but we do have our laughs and our not so good days! I have also re-added people when they have sent me an email asking me too but any that deleted me without saying anything, good riddance!
  17357983
November 16, 2012 6:13 AM
I disagree. I think she's fought her corner very well.

The trouble with this site is that people never really read the thread - they just jump right in with their comments. All she wanted was yay or nay type answers after all.
  28442702
November 16, 2012 6:14 AM
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Oh yes, let's make it even more detailed please..

"You have been deleted by ___. They only added you to steal the hot guys from your list."

"You have been deleted by ___. They can't stand the songs you keep posting."

"You have been deleted by ___. They never really liked you that much in the first place."


"You have been deleted by ___. You've shown them things that cannot be unseen."
November 16, 2012 6:14 AM
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Have you considered creating a spreadsheet to track your friends list? Perhaps an Access database with custom reports that you could run each day to see who may have deleted you?


I am going to assume this a joke, because it made me laugh!

Honestly, if someone deletes me, they aren't worth it. I have friends I would be sad to lose, but they seem least likely to delete me!
  15381035
November 16, 2012 6:14 AM
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I disagree. I think she's fought her corner very well.

The trouble with this site is that people never really read the thread - they just jump right in with their comments. All she wanted was yay or nay type answers after all.


lol I'm sorry....what OP did you read?!
November 16, 2012 6:15 AM
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Oh yes, let's make it even more detailed please..

"You have been deleted by ___. They only added you to steal the hot guys from your list."

"You have been deleted by ___. They can't stand the songs you keep posting."

"You have been deleted by ___. They never really liked you that much in the first place."


"You have been deleted by ___. You've shown them things that cannot be unseen."


"You have been deleted by ___. You show either too much or too little side boob."
November 16, 2012 6:16 AM
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Oh yes, let's make it even more detailed please..

"You have been deleted by ___. They only added you to steal the hot guys from your list."

"You have been deleted by ___. They can't stand the songs you keep posting."

"You have been deleted by ___. They never really liked you that much in the first place."


BRILLIANT!


and the boobs, yes...
Edited by BeeElMarvin On November 16, 2012 6:16 AM
November 16, 2012 6:16 AM
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If I been deleted I have never noticed!


That goes for me too. And sometimes it is not for any reason maybe other than they feel the need to maybe clear out their friends list and stick with those that they converse with more or have more in common with. I wouldn't take it personal.
  2557840
November 16, 2012 6:16 AM
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If you're unable to tell who deleted you, then why does it matter? Clearly that person wasn't important to you and you to them.

Besides, this would just start flame wars. I deleted somebody and like 2-3 weeks after I deleted her I got hate mails. If it takes you this long to realize that I deleted you, then we were just a number on each others friends list and nothing more.


This. I never know what my FL number is, so I never know if someone deleted me or not. There's been some who've deleted me that I've noticed were missing, and some I wished were still on my list, but if I can't tell who it was... why should I care?

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