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October 3, 2012 10:13 PM
not my type...or looking for
October 4, 2012 1:19 AM
Wow there's a lot of insecure people.

My #1 reason is if they're a douchebag.
October 4, 2012 1:26 AM
If he is irresponsible.
November 20, 2012 6:11 AM
They are tight/over conscious about money. Do NOT get me wrong, I am anything but materialistic or high maintenance, I don't want anyone spending their money on me, I just cannot STAND if a man thinks that me spending money on for example a night out with the girls instead of sitting in with a couple of bottles of wine, or going to a coffee shop instead of just waiting til I get home to get coffee, or getting a taxi instead of a bus, is a "waste of good money" it just makes me cringe really and is a major major turn off for me. I'd just rather they not say anything at all. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with being careful with money, but I just can't stand when people talk about money as if it's the most important thing

That's the number 1 turn off for me
Edited by Miss_dannii On November 20, 2012 6:12 AM
November 20, 2012 6:25 AM
Lack of self sustainability/societal mobility
Lack of ambition
Morals/Ethics gap

I can't play daddy boyfriend...This is why I typically end up with women 5-8 years older than me.
November 20, 2012 6:47 AM
#1 Deal breaker for me is a smoker. Doesn't matter how hot the girl is...smoker = no deal. The only exception to this rule is if she smokes very little, as in if we are at a party or the bar....I would be ok with a smoke or two.
November 20, 2012 6:52 AM
I'm married but my big one would be not working or no drivers license. Nope. Times are tough, I get it. Big difference between being inbetween jobs and flat out not working. And adults who don't drive and/or have their license taken away... no no no.
November 20, 2012 6:55 AM
If she had a Penis
November 20, 2012 7:00 AM

Wow there's a lot of insecure people.

My #1 reason is if they're a douchebag.

HA! ^^^this^^^
and people who are always late that is just inconsiderate!
November 20, 2012 7:27 AM
I'm pretty open minded minus the below:

If they smoke or chew tobacco
If they are shorter than me.
November 20, 2012 7:31 AM
Someone with no sense of humor.
November 20, 2012 7:32 AM
The taller/shorter stuff is nonsense.

My husband and I are the same height (I'm taller most of the time because i have better posture).. I still wear heels occasionally, especially to work.

You can't help who you fall for, and why wouldn't you give a good guy a chance, even if he is the same height or shorter? If I had let the fact that he's short get to me in the beginning, I would not have married the love of my life.
November 20, 2012 7:37 AM
I have 3 criteria for dating a guy...

1) Must have a JOB.. cuz I ain't supporting his A$$ no matter how hot he is
2) Must wear a condom without turning into a whiney baby because that's so NOT attractive
3) Must have a Sense of Humor because all I do is GOOF off :o) I will embarrass you in public just to see you lose your mind!! Once you date someone a while the level of crap you can pull goes down so I'm going to get all my amusement in right out the gate before like oral - ya'll take it away!!!
November 20, 2012 7:38 AM
She won't let me poke her in the angry spider.
November 20, 2012 7:40 AM
Well I am happily married but a couple of things that I would have to say no to in my single years:

Bad teeth (not just wonky or something, that wouldn't be a problem but manky / no oral hygiene type thing)
Spends longer in front of the mirror than me. I like a man to be a man's man, not a pretty boy lol.
Not respecting animals or nature. I'm Pagan and while I would never say someone had to have the same religious beliefs as me (hubby doesn't) being kind to animals and taking care of our planet means a whole lot to me. Obviously you'd never really find that out on a first date though.
November 20, 2012 7:40 AM
If he talks back to his Moma no matter what age he is... Thats a no no!
November 20, 2012 7:41 AM

If he talks back to his Moma no matter what age he is... Thats a no no!

What if she's a b1tch?
November 20, 2012 7:45 AM
Height is very important. Can't be shorter than me. Weight, I can deal with, but I tend to go for guys that are a little bigger.

I'm 6ft tall and was very overweight. Now that I'm getting the weight under control, the height thing sometimes still proves difficult. That and GOOD jeans.... sigh, girls got it rough. :)
Edited by Shag79 On November 20, 2012 7:46 AM
November 20, 2012 7:47 AM

Seriously, though. I will have coffee with just about anyone, depends on what happens during that coffee if we date or not.

^^ this has been the rule i've been following ..
Edited by sho3girl On November 20, 2012 7:52 AM
November 20, 2012 8:17 AM
When the B*tch won't listen


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