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October 3, 2012 5:22 PM
Guys that're already in relationships, emotionally detached clusterf_cks, & criminals. All the guys that I attract somehow :L
October 3, 2012 6:37 PM
My 'ideal' partner is taller and heavier than me, laid back, with a sense of humor.

I refuse to date somebody that is abusive, on drugs (even marijuana), does not have their own legal source of income (awful lot of pot farmers in my area), or that won't respect me. Other than that, I'm pretty open. I don't feel that's too much to ask for.
October 3, 2012 6:39 PM
Fat ....she has to like working out
October 3, 2012 7:06 PM
Little Boy Syndrome-

Translates to not having your $h*t together in life. Not knowing what you want to do, how to do it etc. No goals. No independence. No desire to better yourself as a person. You don't know who you are, what you stand for or your own moral/ethics etc.

People evolve at different rates but don't expect me to follow your highschool notions of what a relationship is when you have been out in the real world post college for more than 5 years.
  26710613
October 3, 2012 7:08 PM
if they're married
Edited by imchicbad On October 3, 2012 7:08 PM
October 3, 2012 7:12 PM
QUOTE:

I wont date someone that is 2 out of the 3.

1.) Taller
2..) Smarter
3.) Makes more money

One is fine but my ego can't handle two.


Damn.. That means we could never date...

I'm just joking, really. I'll soon be bypassing my boyfriend in the money department, and I hope that doesn't bother him... I'm also teller than him by half an inch.. As far as the smarts, he has no worries. He's fortunately very intelligent; it's wonderful.
October 3, 2012 7:15 PM
I like my men like like my coffee, Strong, creamy, and rich.

Just kidding. I just need them to be emotionally stable, have ambition, intelligent, confident, compassionate, and loving. Just like my boyfriend :) Three years and counting, and I can't wait to see where life takes us.
October 3, 2012 7:22 PM
-Republican/right winger
-Omnivore
-Unhealthy/inactive/boring
Luckily my sweet & gorgeous man is none of these!
October 3, 2012 7:24 PM
QUOTE:

if they're married


I'm single by the way
October 3, 2012 7:26 PM
Does drugs....
Alcoholic
Abusive/anger problems
Significantly overweight
Addicted to video games

Those are things that won't fly with my lifestyle haha. If my husband ended in one of those categories (which would NEVER be expected but can happen to the best of us) I wouldn't leave him... Obviously support would be given. But going into a relationship these are things I would call automatic no nos.
  6546326
October 3, 2012 7:27 PM
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my number 1 reason i won't date someone is - if they aren't my wife.

Anyway, when I was dating years ago - i dated all types. Taller, bigger, smaller, shorter, small chested, large chested, smarter, um... not smarter. I didn't have any "rules" other than "do I find this person attractive." If the answer was yes, then I took a shot.



That is kinda like how I am. I date all sorts of types too. For me what has got me is finding out that Mr Prince Charming isnt so charming after all. Maybe I should have a long list of what I like before I date them! LOL
October 3, 2012 7:31 PM
QUOTE:

I wont date someone that is 2 out of the 3.

1.) Taller
2..) Smarter
3.) Makes more money

One is fine but my ego can't handle two.


I won't date someone that is 2 out of 3.

1. shorter
2. less smart
3. makes less money
  29952235
October 3, 2012 7:33 PM
I live in AL and I won't date someone who is obsessed with college football (Alabama vs Auburn crap) or that chews tobacco...That REALLY limits my choices in AL. :(
  29952235
October 3, 2012 7:52 PM
QUOTE:

Who:

Doesn't work by choice/lacks work ethic
Has lost their license or just won't get it
Doesn't have a bank account

Those are my absolute no's that I've added to the list from my own immature stupid choices in guys. Two of them had these exact same things in common, sadly I didn't learn the 1st time but luckily never had to have a 3rd times a charm indifferent


How does someone not have a bank account? How do they get paid and pay bills?
October 3, 2012 7:54 PM
QUOTE:

QUOTE:

Who:

Doesn't work by choice/lacks work ethic
Has lost their license or just won't get it
Doesn't have a bank account

Those are my absolute no's that I've added to the list from my own immature stupid choices in guys. Two of them had these exact same things in common, sadly I didn't learn the 1st time but luckily never had to have a 3rd times a charm indifferent


How does someone not have a bank account? How do they get paid and pay bills?


I don't like paying bills
October 3, 2012 8:13 PM
Being insecure is a huge turn off for me, I don't want to constantly have to reassure someone that I'm into them.
I will even date you if you still live with your parents, as long as there is a really good reason, like you're working towards a goal/school etc.. :)
  151545
October 3, 2012 8:20 PM
Number one: they are also a man. (not against those that do though)
  16526431
October 3, 2012 8:59 PM
1. Shorter
2. No drive/motivation/determination
3. Lack of intelligence
4. Lack of respect for people
5. No sense of humor

:)
  19416182
October 3, 2012 9:21 PM
I'm 6'6" and would love to date a woman taller than me

Hit me up, Amazons. Death by snoo snoo seems like a valiant way to go.
October 3, 2012 9:46 PM
Love Shallow Hal
  27050571
October 3, 2012 9:51 PM
QUOTE:

I wouldn’t date someone who was:

Stupid
A walking stereotype
Obese
Boring
Lazy
Emo/Whiny
Not kind to animals
Abusive to women or children
Or lacked a sense of humor

Sounds like I don't have a chance...
  28687641
October 3, 2012 9:52 PM
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Shorter than me...that includes when I am wearing high heels... it just doesnt seem right to me and makes me feel awkward.


this was the one rule that the ladies had that ever eliminated me from their selection.


I have never understood why it makes me feel that way, just does...its not that I deliberately set my attraction node to taller it just is...There is someone for everyone my sister, who is taller than me, prefers short men. Probably a good job and she is nearly 6'


I also prefer shorter men I am 6'2 and my husband is 5'8.
  12911856
October 3, 2012 9:53 PM
QUOTE:

How does someone not have a bank account? How do they get paid and pay bills?

You'd be surprised how many loonies out there will walk 5 miles to pay their bill in person using cash.
  28687641
October 3, 2012 9:56 PM
I'm married now, but the #1 thing was lack of drive and ambition. Everything else can be negotiable or worked on ( provided that person wanted to work on it ). But the lack of motivation to want to get things done... sorry see ya!
  20833821
October 3, 2012 10:09 PM
Hm I seem to have a list of things. Not in any particular order.
Thinner
Smoking/drug use/excessive alcohol consumption
Excessive gaming
Younger
Shorter
Immature
Lazy (no ambition/goals)
Bad hygiene
Bad communication/social skills
Pessimism
Poor money management

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