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October 3, 2012 10:08 AM
They are skinner than me... I hate that for me. I don't mind if other people do this at all but, for me. I cannot stand it. I have done it before and hated it. Am I alone here? What are some of the things that turn you away from dating people?
October 3, 2012 10:15 AM
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They are skinner than me... I hate that for me. I don't mind if other people do this at all but, for me. I cannot stand it. I have done it before and hated it. Am I alone here? What are some of the things that turn you away from dating people?
You're not alone. My wife absolutely refused to let me start our diet until her weight was at least 5 pounds less than mine.
October 3, 2012 10:24 AM
I wont date someone that is 2 out of the 3.

1.) Taller
2..) Smarter
3.) Makes more money

One is fine but my ego can't handle two.
October 3, 2012 10:26 AM
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I wont date someone that is 2 out of the 3.

1.) Taller
2..) Smarter
3.) Makes more money

One is fine but my ego can't handle two.


gosh those 3 are how i likey my men ;)
October 3, 2012 10:26 AM
QUOTE:

QUOTE:

I wont date someone that is 2 out of the 3.

1.) Taller
2..) Smarter
3.) Makes more money

One is fine but my ego can't handle two.


gosh those 3 are how i likey my men ;)


Me too!!
October 3, 2012 10:31 AM
Shorter than me...that includes when I am wearing high heels... it just doesnt seem right to me and makes me feel awkward.
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October 3, 2012 10:34 AM
my number 1 reason i won't date someone is - if they aren't my wife.

Anyway, when I was dating years ago - i dated all types. Taller, bigger, smaller, shorter, small chested, large chested, smarter, um... not smarter. I didn't have any "rules" other than "do I find this person attractive." If the answer was yes, then I took a shot.
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October 3, 2012 10:34 AM
My ex had like 5 percent body fat and a thin and trim body with nice arms and a kind of natural six pack and he ate everything and never worked out.
But then I found out he was doing cocaine so that explains that.
But still. I was smaller than him in frame but he had no body fat & small legs so I used to feel fat around him.
Edited by SomeoneSomeplace On October 3, 2012 10:35 AM
October 3, 2012 10:35 AM
Who:

Doesn't work by choice/lacks work ethic
Has lost their license or just won't get it
Doesn't have a bank account

Those are my absolute no's that I've added to the list from my own immature stupid choices in guys. Two of them had these exact same things in common, sadly I didn't learn the 1st time but luckily never had to have a 3rd times a charm indifferent
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October 3, 2012 10:37 AM
number one reason for me is they are constantly b*tching about everything, nothing makes you less attractive than a horrible attitude towards everything and everyone, especially toward me, if i wanted to hear someone complain about everything constantly i would get a job at mcdonalds as a cashier/order taker laugh

also on another note for all you women that might be responding to this thread with what the OP said what exactly do you classify as "skinnier than you" is it actual weight? looks? body fat? cause i know in my case i have lost alot of my body fat (which was most of my weight) and eventually will be around 200lbs again but i'm getting there slowly to keep my body fat % low while gaining muscle, but once i do get there i will still be somewhere around 10% body fat. so what is it that you think is "skinnier than you?"
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October 3, 2012 10:38 AM
If she smokes...that's a no go. Don't care if she looks like Beyonce'. There's nothing sexy about kissing an ashtray.
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October 3, 2012 10:41 AM
Well, I'm married, but back when I was on the market, it was:

1: You must have overall good oral hygiene. Brown teeth, missing teeth, or dragon's breath would automatically disqualify you.\
2: You must have a job and, if not, searching for one or going to college.
3: Have to be taller than me. I dated someone shorter before and it drove me nuts.
4: No drugs and no smoking. Occasional alcohol okay, but I'm not into people who like getting fall down drunk.
Edited by purplegoboom On October 3, 2012 10:42 AM
October 3, 2012 10:42 AM
Smoking is my #1
October 3, 2012 10:44 AM
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Shorter than me...that includes when I am wearing high heels... it just doesnt seem right to me and makes me feel awkward.


this was the one rule that the ladies had that ever eliminated me from their selection.
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October 3, 2012 10:47 AM
Bad breath
Shorter than me
Dirty sneakers
October 3, 2012 10:52 AM
Things that turn me away are lack of intelligence. oh and not being single is a major turn off haha
October 3, 2012 11:00 AM
My Morals, I 'm Married.

When single I would date just about anyone, at least long enough to see if I thought we would hit it off.
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October 3, 2012 11:01 AM
My number reason i wouldn't date someone is if they have no job or not trying to make something out of themselves.
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October 3, 2012 11:07 AM
43 and happily married but, when I was single.....

High School: dated anything that moved slow enough for me to catch
College: Eliminated Blondes...long story
After College: married a "Kim" divorced a Kim...then dated another Kim and found out what a lying piece of...ok, getting off subject....sooooo, I eliminated Kim's from the list.
Then...no drug related addictions.....Found my current who is almost 10 yrs younger than me so, I was able to train her a little. laugh
October 3, 2012 11:08 AM
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QUOTE:

Shorter than me...that includes when I am wearing high heels... it just doesnt seem right to me and makes me feel awkward.


this was the one rule that the ladies had that ever eliminated me from their selection.


I have never understood why it makes me feel that way, just does...its not that I deliberately set my attraction node to taller it just is...There is someone for everyone my sister, who is taller than me, prefers short men. Probably a good job and she is nearly 6'
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October 3, 2012 11:10 AM
lack of intelligence and smoking would be two no nos for me...

Also, someone who was not into a healthy lifestyle/working out would probably not be a good fit..
October 3, 2012 11:12 AM
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my number 1 reason i won't date someone is - if they aren't my wife.


^ this
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October 3, 2012 11:14 AM
my number one reason is if they like nickelback.
October 3, 2012 11:15 AM
Happily married for 26 years. I guess my criteria before this was obvious attraction but then personality. But, I think a lot of folks might do themselves some good and prevent future heartache by watching or re-watching the movie Shallow Hal. Inner qualities are what last and what will put you into a life long relationship.
October 3, 2012 11:15 AM
Shorter and smaller than me. Yeah, the guy would be tiny if he was.

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