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September 6, 2012 10:23 AM
I'm curious to know from the guys point of view, what it is that you look for in a girl/woman? Not just how they look, dig deeper then just appearance :)
September 6, 2012 10:24 AM
Nobody approaches a girl at a bar because of her personality.


Boobs help. Big ones.
September 6, 2012 10:25 AM
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Nobody approaches a girl at a bar because of her personality.


Boobs help. Big ones.


I'm sure that catches his attention, but what keeps it?
September 6, 2012 10:28 AM
Sense of humor, into cars, likes to rough-house as a means of foreplay... the usual.
September 6, 2012 10:28 AM
Do you answer yes on the intial yes/no question that takes every man about a tenth of a millisecond to answer...

if so, personality and all that other **** come into play...
September 6, 2012 10:29 AM
Although I am not a guy, it seems that being fun, sense of humor, easy going, smart, not clingy, and secure with yourself - and of course take pride in your appearance - isn't it the same for both sexes? And good/fun in the sack.....
September 6, 2012 10:33 AM
SIGH.
Despite their sometimes misguided attempts to convince us otherwise.. men as a group or "species" are just as individual, unique and multi-faceted as women.. and so then too are their preferences.
September 6, 2012 10:43 AM
It varies from guy to guy!
September 6, 2012 10:43 AM
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Although I am not a guy, it seems that being fun, sense of humor, easy going, smart, not clingy, and secure with yourself - and of course take pride in your appearance - isn't it the same for both sexes? And good/fun in the sack.....


Almost exactly what I was gonna say...pride in yourself is huge IMO
September 6, 2012 10:46 AM
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SIGH.
Despite their sometimes misguided attempts to convince us otherwise.. men as a group or "species" are just as individual, unique and multi-faceted as women.. and so then too are their preferences.


LIES!!
September 6, 2012 10:49 AM
Apart from physical attraction...

Smart...intelligent, funny, career minded/goal driven.

There is also the what I don't look for which trumps the above:

Not clingy, not needy, not insecure, not JADED...it's hard to find someone who doesn't lug arround these kind of attributes.
September 6, 2012 10:51 AM
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Apart from physical attraction...

Smart...intelligent, funny, career minded/goal driven.

There is also the what I don't look for which trumps the above:

Not clingy, not needy, not insecure, not JADED...it's hard to find someone who doesn't lug arround these kind of attributes.


Thanks for adding the "what I don't look for" :)
September 6, 2012 10:53 AM
Boobs, then a nice smile. After that, the personality. Physical attraction always comes first but almost all guys need her to have a good personality to want a LTR.
September 6, 2012 10:54 AM
I actually read an article in Glamour magazine where they interviewed a bunch of men and a lot of them said that we judge ourselves too harshly on what our bodies look like, that the majority of them think we look just fine and aren't into big fake boobs and skinny as a rail. Found that interesting, you always hear a guy say, "you look fine.." but you just think they are being nice, maybe they're really telling the truth, haha
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September 6, 2012 10:55 AM
Depends on the guy.
Physically, I look for good hair,

The way she's carrying herself. Not looking like with low-self esteem or over confident

If she's smiling alot . Sorry but if you're with me i'll be telling alot of stupid jokes and while you shouldn't be faking the laugh, you should atleast tell me someway that you can be amused

Once thats taken care of and I find her attractive, can I talk to her? Is she somebody I cannot relate to at all (valley girl types aren't my type).

But above all, what I really REALLY look for in a girl

is that she's not a b****
Edited by taunto On September 6, 2012 11:04 AM
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September 6, 2012 10:55 AM
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I actually read an article in Glamour magazine where they interviewed a bunch of men and a lot of them said that we judge ourselves too harshly on what our bodies look like, that the majority of them think we look just fine and aren't into big fake boobs and skinny as a rail. Found that interesting, you always hear a guy say, "you look fine.." but you just think they are being nice, maybe they're really telling the truth, haha
this is true, we don't judge you as harsh as you judge yourself. Not even close.
September 6, 2012 10:56 AM
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pulse and 2 holes
only 2? You must date prudes....
September 6, 2012 10:56 AM
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I actually read an article in Glamour magazine where they interviewed a bunch of men and a lot of them said that we judge ourselves too harshly on what our bodies look like, that the majority of them think we look just fine and aren't into big fake boobs and skinny as a rail. Found that interesting, you always hear a guy say, "you look fine.." but you just think they are being nice, maybe they're really telling the truth, haha


I think this is 100% of the average male. There are some men who are into the superficially created woman (big boobs, perfect ass, skinny body, etc etc) but I don't think they're that common.

All the men I've known just love women. Period. No matter the shape!
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September 6, 2012 10:56 AM
sammiches! laugh
September 6, 2012 10:57 AM
good heart- honesty is a must, compassion, gentleness, handles herself with dignity... more?
September 6, 2012 10:57 AM
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I actually read an article in Glamour magazine where they interviewed a bunch of men and a lot of them said that we judge ourselves too harshly on what our bodies look like, that the majority of them think we look just fine and aren't into big fake boobs and skinny as a rail. Found that interesting, you always hear a guy say, "you look fine.." but you just think they are being nice, maybe they're really telling the truth, haha


I have guy friends that have told me this....
September 6, 2012 10:59 AM
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sammiches! laugh


Now that's funny! And probably true for some guys!
September 6, 2012 11:00 AM
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Apart from physical attraction...

Smart...intelligent, funny, career minded/goal driven.

There is also the what I don't look for which trumps the above:

Not clingy, not needy, not insecure, not JADED...it's hard to find someone who doesn't lug arround these kind of attributes.


I've always wondered what constitutes as needy or clingy or insecure? Are we talking extreme cases or is any level of these equally unattractive?

I think everyone feels insecure or needy at times (like when one is sick! HAHA!) but I don't think these things are inherently unattractive unless they are over the top and constant.

Just sayin'. Haha.
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September 6, 2012 11:00 AM
Seems like a lot of men should just say "a female version of myself" tongue
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September 6, 2012 11:01 AM
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pulse and 2 holes

this I am sorry to say was what I was expecting most of the replys to be...

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