I am saddened by the whole, "motivate yourself, don't add me as a friend because it's on you" attitude around here. The friends I have are AWESOME! I love the few MFPs I do have. I'm afraid to add ppl so if you're friendly and need a little extra motivation or someone to share your accomplishments with, that's me. Feel free to add me.
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Message Boards » Motivation and Support
TOPIC: Some people are just plain MEAN :( |
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Joined 2012-04-04 Posts: 30 |
August 05, 2012 18:07
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Joined 2012-07-26 Posts: 467 |
August 05, 2012 18:10
now i feel bad for laughing at that post =(
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Joined 2012-06-02 Posts: 356 |
August 05, 2012 18:11
Yeah. You'll find ****s everywhere you look. But there aren't always people like that.
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Joined 2012-02-02 Posts: 352 |
August 05, 2012 18:11
What, people are like that on here?
Anyone who acts like that needs to pull the stick out of their ass. |
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Joined 2012-01-01 Posts: 300 |
August 05, 2012 18:14
QUOTE: What, people are like that on here? Anyone who acts like that needs to pull the stick out of their ass. I agree with you...unsupportive and mean people like that should keep to themselves. Supportive people rock! 
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Joined 2010-08-18 Posts: 11 |
August 05, 2012 18:15
I feel you,I find the same problem for a year I've been here and I never talked with anyone,its like a party that no one talks to you,you sit in the corner eating alone and when you had enough you go home....lol I log in,put in my meals and exercises and I leave,it would be nice to challege myself with someone but either way I'm doing this..
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Joined 2012-02-29 Posts: 419 |
August 05, 2012 18:15
LOL!
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Joined 2010-12-29 Posts: 1,946 |
August 05, 2012 18:16
haha. sure add me.
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Joined 2012-04-22 Posts: 6 |
August 05, 2012 18:17
Everyone I met on here so far has been really supportive... I ran out of my allotted 25 requests I can send today but I am always open to new supportive people! Feel free to add me!
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Joined 2010-03-12 Posts: 859 |
August 05, 2012 18:18
It is on you, you make the choices for yourself. Why do you need a cheerleader?
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Joined 2012-03-23 Posts: 226 |
August 05, 2012 18:18
I know how you feel some days!!! It's ok!! feel free to add me. I actually like to communicate with people via MFp though and vice versa, ;-) not just add people for the sake of adding people, you know!? Good luck!!
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Joined 2012-05-14 Posts: 3,814 |
August 05, 2012 18:19
inspiration is different from motivation. motivation comes from within.
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Joined 2012-03-21 Posts: 79 |
August 05, 2012 18:20
PLease add me. I don't judge or talk politics. We all need motivation or we wouldn't be on here.
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Joined 2011-03-24 Posts: 799 |
August 05, 2012 18:20
Don't be disheartened, there are some great people on here you just haven't met them yet. if you want fell free to add me always open to meeting new friends.
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Joined 2012-04-04 Posts: 30 |
August 05, 2012 18:21
QUOTE: It is on you, you make the choices for yourself. Why do you need a cheerleader? I don't... You missed the point of the thread. I enjoy FRIENDLY people! I don't need a cheerleader as I am not a FOOTBALL TEAM! (see what I mean...) |
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Joined 2012-03-28 Posts: 192 |
August 05, 2012 18:22
I agaree there some just plain mean people on MFP, they are not here to support but to brag. on the other hand. I have awesome and supportive friends and I love them. feel free to add me. I love to help motivate and inspire others and I love people who do the same for me. whether it is encouraging me to do that last set of push ups I don't want to do or helping me not freak out over a scale that won't budge after I have worked so hard. .
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Joined 2012-06-10 Posts: 117 |
August 05, 2012 18:23
I have not run into the MEAN people here yet. I have a small group of friends here who cheer me on and who I cheer on daily. I HAD to initially make the final decision to lose this weight, no one could do that for me. Maybe that is what they meant by "It's On You" although I could be wrong. At any rate, you can add me as your friend and I will support you 100%!
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Joined 2010-04-28 Posts: 258 |
August 05, 2012 18:23
QUOTE: It is on you, you make the choices for yourself. Why do you need a cheerleader? No one needs a cheerleader, but it's good to have a support system and a little sympathy. I'm sorry you're getting these replies from people. Dieting is not a trivial thing, and the support I've had has really made the difference. Be indifferent to these selfish people and keep looking for the supportive people. 
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Joined 2009-07-23 Posts: 20 |
August 05, 2012 18:23
I know what you mean.!!! Please feel free to add me I love meeting new friends and I try to be encouraging.
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Joined 2012-04-04 Posts: 30 |
August 05, 2012 18:24
Thanks to everyone that wasn't a a**hole! :) I enjoy talking and swapping stories with ppl here. Not looking for a "cheerleader" (smart as*) but I'm just a people person. They're definitely more nice ppl here than not... :)
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Joined 2012-08-01 Posts: 8 |
August 05, 2012 18:25
Wow, some ppl.. :( SMH. I WILL PROUDLY BE PART OF ANYONES SUPPORT TEAM!!!
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Joined 2012-07-19 Posts: 95 |
August 05, 2012 18:25
yes
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Joined 2012-01-31 Posts: 1,098 |
August 05, 2012 18:26
QUOTE: It is on you, you make the choices for yourself. Why do you need a cheerleader? Thank you for proving the OP's point....Some ppl are just mean and unsupportive for no reason...maybe it makes them feel better about themselves, who knows? You are free to add me, I will be there for you! |
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Joined 2010-01-27 Posts: 549 |
August 05, 2012 18:27
People are getting meaner. I saw someone use the word "hangry". I think that explains everything! Don't let the "meaners" (meaner than the rest of us) get you down!
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Joined 2011-02-18 Posts: 122 |
August 05, 2012 18:29
Don't really understand people being like that on here. This is a site to not only log your food and exercise but a HUGE role is to find amazing supportive friends. So that comment is just stupid.
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