Your dieting is for you, you should not expect or require someone else to alter thier life because you've decided to change yourself. Supporting someone only goes so far. You've chosen to change your eating habits because you wanted to. You can't expect her to change how she eats just because you have, she doesn't have to go along with what you do. Also, you might be blowing this out of proportion.

Oh yes

All I can say is 'aah...diddums...'

Nobody is responsible for anything that you put in your big fat gob but you.

The sooner you realise that, you thinner/slimmer you will be.

I am new...so don't know if you are being sarcastic or completely serious. Either way, this ain't easy and it sounds like she isn't helping. I hope that you stick with making good choices anyway. You're so not alone. It's a struggle...I am scared to death that I will fail at this AGAIN but I'm taking things one day at a time.

You can do it! You are in my prayers! :)

Hope you have a good weekend!

Tell her that she's had a long day and that you are going to do the cooking for her tonight.
Then cook in exactly 2 tablespoons of olive oil.
You'll be healthy, she'll be unknowingly healthy, and happy that you are doing something for her.
You may even get lucky.

Here is a crazy thought...Have you talked with her about what you are feeling and what your goals are? I encourage you to keep fighting the good fight. Make healthy choices for yourself, lead by example, and you will be surprised as how your story will impact the people around you.

i'm actually feeling kind of shocked at some of the responses people are sending you. just ignore the jackasses that aren't taking this seriously. if you are truly scared of her, you need to get out. as for tonight, tell her to get oil herself, OR go out and just do something for you.

i'm so sorry that this is your predicament. i do also agree that there may be something going on with her as far as another relationship. checking texts is a great idea. if she doesn't want to support you being a healthier version of you then she can't truly love you.

Though this was CLEARLY meant in jest, poking fun at over-dramatic people who blame their failures on others, I'm going to pretend it wasn't.

My family has those for dinner about once a week, sometimes with fried potatoes rather than beans inside with the meat. (Large fam, it stretches the meat)

My advice- you know how you add lettuce and salasa to the taco after frying? (like how you peel it apart and add some?) Get a bowl. FIll that sucker up with lettuce and salsa. Add a little scoop of the meat an beans. Viola! Taco salad (delish too, by the way)

After all that, after going to the store to get cooking oil, she made something completely different. She made stir fry. I don't know what to think or do any more.