WOW!! What a total jerk-off!!! Don't EVER let ANYONE tell you what you can or cannot do! Losing weight may not be easy, but it sure doesn't take a miracle! It takes time, patience, dedication, education, and hard work, but that in any way mean you can't do it.

Wow, what a complete and total...well, douchebag sure does cover it! I'd be googling endocrinologists and finding a new one immediately, and possibly reporting that one to some eithics board somewhere.

I was already rooting for your success, but, dang, now it's a whole new fight! You go, girl! You got this! :-)

You clearly have a determination that WILL get you far! I am so sorry that Doc. was such a jerk!
Sounds like the 'regular' Doc is wonderful...
Let us, your mfp community help support you!!

That is so sad... that doctor should be ashame of himself. But you know what? We will be here with you and we will go thru this journey together and you will see that if you work at it, you will lose the weight and then you can prove him WRONG.
you should add him as your motivation on your profile.. "to prove Dr. Douchebag WRONG"

I will send you an msg later (I really should be working out right now) with two other things that I'm doing and are working for me...

take care .... we are here for you

Prove that douchebag wrong, you got this girl!

So, the douchebag has a license to practice medicine? A lot of douchebags do. He was extremely unprofessional, and I hope you told him so. The only person who can change you is you. The only person who can stop you from changing is you. Let the douchbag eat your dust! You're well on your way to proving him wrong!

That doctor should be out of business, he is obviously a burn out. Take a picture now, and when you get to your goal weight take another and drop them off with a kiss my a** letter.

I am so sorry that you had this experience! I work in healthcare and it kills me to hear stories like this. Because they are primarily paid by insurance companies or government programs, doctors often forget that they are in a service industry. If I were you, I would file complaints with any medical staffs that he is a member.

You will prove him wrong. Have faith in yourself, keep working hard, and just never give up. Take care of yourself and forget anyone that gets in your way!

You absolutely CAN DO IT!!! I'm going to send you a friend request and we'll help each other. I've had doctor appts with asshats like that and I really feel your pain. I'm so sorry he talked to you like that. You really need to write a letter to his practice and whatever board he answers to. Doctors need to remember they're treating PEOPLE!

YUCK...this guy sounds like he shouldn't practice medicine...I am so lucky to have a GP who has know me since I was a baby...and would never act like this! You will prove him wrong...I have faith in you!

You can do it! Turn that justified anger into resolve, and keep the resolve, not the anger....you are on your way!

You got this!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are here for a reason, and you have taken the steps to change your life!!!!! He on the other hand, is a douchebag and will never be happy in his life, and can't admit that he is an asshat. Now, you will prove him wrong, take that drive and motivation and reach for the stars!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't let anything stand in the way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know that I don't really know you, I came across your blog from a link on my MFP homepage but I had to take a minute to try to encourage you. I personally know two women who have lost more the 100 lbs each and are still going strong without surgury! You can do this, just stay strong and keep focused on your goal. When it seems to much to bear, remind yourself of why you are doing this. Make it a life change - not a "diet". It takes work but it is not impossible. I have begun my own journey a little while back and I have lost 40lbs so far (I have a long way to go) but every pound gone is a pound closer to my goal. Eat clean, do cardio and do strength training to build the muscle to support your metabolism. It works! :) Don't give up!! :)

When I read this my heart just melt, the same thing happend to me about 4 months ago! I had close to the same horrible experience you did except it was a woman being so terribly nasty and she told me that I would never get my weight under control without the help of Bariatric Surgery. I have been on medicine about 1 month now and they told me at best I would maintain my weight. Well 5 months into my weight loss journey and I am 46 pounds down! If I can prove my doctor wrong, you most certainly prove yours wrong! You can do this!

I think the thousands of people on MFP who have lost 115 lbs or more need to show up in his office and beat some sense in to him. You can do this, and with extra motivation from a DBag like him, you absolutely will. Will it be easy? No, but it can be done and the Success Stories on this board are proof of that! Good luck to you!

Haven't read your blog before, but it was on the front page as a "popular post" so I clicked and read. Glad I did. You can do it! I did it. And went through a lot of the same stuff! I have PCOS and when I finally saw the fertility specialist through referral, she said she couldn't do anything unless I lost the weight.

I was 290 and when I got to 190 I got pregnant without interventions. My PCOS also magically got better (?!). My ovaries were no longer cystic, although I still have other symptoms.

It took me about 2 years to lose 100 lbs. Not saying people can't do it faster. Good luck!

My mantra is DBAD (don't be a douche). It is awesome that you are finding strength in his lack. I recommend going to the dr report cards and leaving patient feedback. You don't have to be too descriptive, but you could report that he wasn't willing to even talk about issues, only assumed failure without a scalpel.

Anyways, the BEST of luck to you. Rmemember, it is a lifelong journey. Don't expect too much of yourself, or you will feel like a failure. Let it come slowly and consistantly and it will stay off. Give yourself a 1 month, 3 month, 6 month, 1 year 18 month and 2 year goal. (You will lose the most in the first year, so make sure you don't expect to lose 20 pounds every month, that is unlikely...but you could lose 20 pounds first month, 19 second, 18 third, etc...)

That doctor sounds like a complete douche. We all have faith in you! You can do it! Take some time to research how the body works & get the basics of energy in & energy out under control. Develop a healthy lifestyle by planning means, counting calories, drinking lots of water & getting any form of exercise you can!

I hope that X number of months from now, you waltz into his office, having succeeded in your goals, and prove him wrong! You can do it!!

I am a RN by trade. I would call Dr. Douchebag's office, inform them that I was firing that doctor, [Yes, you can do that], and tell the office why you are firing that doctor. Then, find a different endocrinologist. Prior to meeting that doctor, I would have a list of questions such as, "How is the doctor's bed-sïde manner?", "How will the doctor handle my questions?", "How quickly does this doctor follow-up on issues that I present?", "How long is the typically wait from check-in to being seen?" Just to name a few.

What a horrible way to treat a patient...or ANYone for that matter! Luckily you have someone sooo much better. What peaches he and his staff are to actually listen. You are worth this battle, and don't you forget it!

Friend me if you like =)
Angie

What a bonehead! I have never had pcos, but I've known a few women who did. Losing weight, naturally, seemed to help. YOU are in control. YOU are capable of anything you set your mind to. YOU can prove that idiot doctor wrong.
Go for it! Not only will you be healthier, you'll also get the satisfaction of being right.

I am so happy you had a good experience after that nightmare. You are strong and I know this because you have shared this with others. You will reach every goal and when you are have a down day just imagine the look on that douches face when you have achieved your ultimate goal that he said you couldn't do. You can do it!!!

I am so sorry to hear about your experience. What a jerk! Doctors are not gods, they are your employee when you go to them for treatment and if a patient doesn't like it, they can go somewhere else. Why do doctors think they have the right to treat someone the way you were treated? I wonder if his reputation lead him to believe he can act that way. I hope you find someone else to help you who supports you like your other doctor.

Good luck! I am rooting for you!

I completely believe in you and already see you 115lbs thinner and pregnant. Enjoy your successful journey. You are ALWAYS supported.

WOW...what an asshole!!! Your other doctor sounds amazing. I'm so proud of you for pulling yourself together...sometimes anger is a big motivator! I would make it my mission to prove that asshole wrong (while doing it for yourself obviously)...and keep chipping away until you walk back in and throw your before pics at him!

You have my complete sympathy for experiencing such a cold, discouraging, uncaring endocrinologist... but the fact remains that you are looking for input from an endocrinologist. Maybe your GP can identify one with a kind, helpful personality, and refer you to him/her instead. Meanwhile, you will be following MFP and losing weight, and quite a lot if you have to wait another several months for an appointment... so when you see the next endocrinologist, you can open by saying: "I've lost __ pounds, and plan to lose another __ pounds". In other words, keep your focus on getting what you need, rather than someone's supremely disappointing behavior.

I firmly believe that if we are determined to lose weight, we will succeed... We need only turn to the many success stories on MFP to see that happening. Best wishes for your journey to motherhood!

Definitely an arsehole and I am so glad you have come to the conclusion that you are strong enough to do it anyway and prove him wrong. More power to you! Xx

Unfortunately, I've dealt with a number of "top" specialists who acted like this. Just like kktat2 said, it's time you fired this man. I have done just that, though I asked to speak with the doctor directly and made it clear why I was firing him.

You have absolute control over where your life leads, and that man can't break you. Can't wait to see your before/after/pregnancy pics.

Wow I am speechless at how rediculous that Douch bag Dr. was to you!! How hurtfull!!! Well like the fellow comments have been stated, dont let anyone put you down and tell you what you can and cannot do!
You have a choice in life, you "CAN" lose the weight, you just have to be determined and keep your mind right and stay postitive!! We have faith in you and so does the Lord!
I'm a new follower btw, your blog caught my eye and I couldn't resist reading ur journey!!
You CAN DO IT GIRL!!!!

Omg Dr. Douchebag is JUST THAT. What a jerk! Hopefully he just was having a bad day....? Don't let people like that bring you down. You CAN do ANYTHING you put your mind to and work hard for. I truly believe that.

argggghhhhhh! I hate when things like this happen.... what a tool! I'm sending you a friend request.... you can so do this and we here will help you! I too have had my battles with not so good endos....but nothing like this....he needs to be reported....and he needs to be told by you as well as to WHY you are leaving his practice...thyroid issues are so key...and loads of endos just don't get the difference.....have you read any of Mary Shomon's books / blogs? I highly recommend it!

Your commitment will help you to reach your goals. Your journey may not be as simple as some but it is possible. I have PCOS, just had a total thyroidectomy in May and have a goal that includes losing 80 or so pounds. You are not alone. Talk to your new endo about testing you for vitamin deficiencies. Getting things in balance is key when you have PCOS. All the best to you on your journey.

Good Luck.. in proving him wrong... what an AZZ.....

You are a strong woman. And you are right, YOU CAN DO THIS!!!

i dont know u but i wish i did damn girl you are a strong woman! but personally i proably would of told th
at douche bag what i thought of him yeah i would have

Wow! What a dick! I have tears in my eyes for you - I'd have reacted the same way you did afterwards! What a great plan to use his rudeness as motivation, but please don't give that jerk any more mental time and energy - he has already done enough damage! You got this, girl! Go kick some butt!

What an idiot! You can do anything you set your mind too. I have a lot to lose to. I'm going to take a quick walk in a few. Care to join me in spirit?

Awwww....I am so sorry you had to go thru that!! What a jerk!!! Sometimes those specialized dr's just have no idea how to be nice. THank goodness you have support from your general doctor. Can you do it???.....YES!!...if you put your mind to it....you can most definatly do it!!! When you do I would def walk into that endocrinologist office & strut your stuff =) I'm cheering you on ;) xx

Doctors like that are nothing but asshats. YOU CAN DO THIS! It will take time but you can do it!!

We're here to help you!!!!!! YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!

you got this, prove him wrong.

Yes you are right you CAN do it. Every week we see people on TV on Biggest Loser, Extreme Weight Loss and other shows that show people that have lost over #100 lbs and you can be another of their ranks. There are plenty of people here on MFP that have lost over #100 and I know each one of them can tell that Doctor it CAN be done. {{hugs}} to you and we will all be cheering you on as you meet each one of your goals.

Clearly this man knows nothing about what people with enough drive and motivation can do! You'd have to wonder how he even managed to get through medical school.

If I were you I would find a new one and tell this twat you're firing him from treating you and explain to his face why.
And when (not if) you have lost the weight, I would send him before and after pictures to rub it in his face that he was wrong.

You are amazing and you have something that a lot of other people don't have.....the will and drive to make the changes necessary. You will stumble, you will fall and you will feel failure at times. DO NOT GIVE UP!!!

Success is always the best revenge.

You should enter reviews of him online. Other people should know. It's a public service if you do so.

What a sad excuse for a human being. I am sorry that you have had to endure his ugly behavior. Endrocrinologists must deal with people with your illnesses daily. It seems unimaginable that this one person has the capacity to cause emotional pain to so many people everyday. There had to be a better way to inform you that this will be an enormous challenge. To throw medication at you in such a cavalier manner shows so little consideration for others I can barely fathom it. I hope that you can see him in public after you lose the weight and get pregnant. Knowing that he was wrong should shame him. We are hear for you.

So glad you have a medical staff (not just doctor) that does get that the patient is the reason they're there.. And so sorry you had such a terrible experience with the endocrinologist. Can your doctor recommend someone else? You definitely CAN do this. Its going to be your battle to fight, so I'm glad you're doing your homework and I hope you will arm yourself with everything you can get your hands on (plus a doctor that's not a jerkwad). Look forward to the blog post claiming your victory :)

Never say never. You have the attitude and the strength to get it done. I spent my working life around physicians and I must say I don't like them very much (a gross generalization I know) but many are so impressed with themselves and the adoration they get from coworkers that they lose sight of why they do what they do. Don't let that bast**d grind you down. We're all on your side

Oh, honey... You don't have to put up with that. Serioulsy. Hell, you can find a GP who will help you with all of that. You just have to find a good one. Finding a doctor who CARES is 10x more important than all the fancy endocrinology degrees IMHO when it comes to dealing with thyroid and such. Good luck to you.

the guy has the bedside manner of a honey badger. what a jerk! He's wrong. You can do this. And it was HIS job to encourage and help you, not treat you like that. yes, its going to be harder for you than for some people...but that's meaningless....because you are YOU and you can do what you need to do! Prove him wrong. And then send him the pictures!

Can't believe that happened to you! What a useless doctor he is. You can totally do this :)

is there anyone you can report him to? that is just not how to handle patients! especially after four bloody months of waiting! He may be the best in his field but that doesn't mean he can talk bollocks and treat you badly!

I don't care what he says you don't need surgery to loose enough wait to be a Mum, you can do it! With a target as big as getting pregnant you have a whole lot of motivation!

What a douche to say the least!!! You can do this and go back and tell him to kiss your lil butt when you do!

You should have thrown the medicine back in his face and told him you didn't need his help. What a jerk. Just because you may know your stuff doesn't mean you can treat people like they're less important. Glad you have a good attitude about this though. Good luck to you! You can do it!

I believe in you! You can do anything you set your mind to. Just continue to believe in yourself and your dreams.
Don't ever let another individual no matter what their title may be ever put doubts in your head. Stay strong, take baby steps and you will get there. Just look at all the support you have here!!

I believe in you! You can do anything you set your mind to. Just continue to believe in yourself and your dreams.
Don't ever let another individual no matter what their title may be ever put doubts in your head. Stay strong, take baby steps and you will get there. Just look at all the support you have here!!

Wow. I would seriously write a complaint to the medical review board for the way he treated you. What he said isn't medically sound advice and he should be reprimanded for it, IMO. I believe in you and I KNOW you can do it!

Doctors like that are only in it for the money! Don't listen to him!!
Keep your chin up and good luck on your journey, You CAN do this!

I've worked in healthcare now for 7 years and have heard (and personally experienced) many stories like yours. It's so hurtful because we all tend to look to doctors almost like they are benevolant little gods with all the answers when in fact they are just human beings like you and me (with a lot more education!). Not to take away the many, many good ways they serve mankind. Honestly, life would be much more challenging without them to put it mildly.

After having a similar experience with my family doc, I decided I needed to be responsible for my own health as much as possible. I found websites dedicated to enabling the average person to do this (Mercola.com, Dr. Oz, etc.) "Knowledge is power" as they say.

You are taking a painful experience and turning it into something positive and I applaud you for that! I'm pullin' for you. We're all in this together :)

You can do this, surgery is the last resort. Don't let someone tell you that you can't. You just remember how that felt that day everytime you want to not exercise or eat 5 cookies when 1 cookie will do. Use it to stay eating healthy and exercising.

I too have had my share of doctors that dont listen. They think they know everything and I am the stupid, fat patient that needs to just get over it. grrrr... You can do anything you put your mind to. I truely believe that. i finally found my doctor that cares and it has helped so much. cant wait to see your "after" pics when you are done!You can do it!

This is my first time reading anything of yours for whatever reason I found it and read it.
Do not let that jerk of a doc ruin your plan. Once you get that momentum going it is hard to stop. It may take some time but you CAN do this if you want it bad enough and are willing to work for it..
Good job on letting that doc shoot down your dreams..
I too have PCOS and thyroid issues. I am past wanting babies mine are 20 and 22. So I understand some of what you are going thru..

yep that's a really crappy way to be treated by a medical professional.

or he is a secret genius who wants you to hate him enough to fuel your fire like never before.

Kudos to you! You've got the will and the drive to do this. Plus you've got all of us MFPeeps behind you! We're all in this together, right beside you cheering you on!

I don't know you, but this just made me sooo mad!!!! I can't stand when people are so unnecessaraily cruel to another person, and especially a person who was in a vulnerable position looking for help. You got the right attitude and you'll do great and reach your goals, he was probably mad because he couldn't sell you on surgery and collect the money from the insurance company. Sadly, I think him laughing and being cruel was manipulative. Best of luck to you can't wait to see all those "after" pictures!

You go Girl! and don't let that douchebag ruin your day. I hope you get into a dr that can help you and will not treat you like crap.

Sweetie, you WILL do this!!! Everyone that is reading and commenting on your blog will support you!

You can do it!!!! Don't let him get you down! We had a doctor tell my husband and me to give up and go adopt and now we have 3 beautiful children! Don't let one bad opinion change your goals! I will be rooting for you- and going right along with you on your journey as I am at the same place that you are so our goals are very similar. Feel free to friend me if you wish.

There are a lot of people on this site who can prove him wrong. Make sure that you are one of them. :)

This is truly truly unbelievable. I hope you read this comment because I want you to know that I TRULY am in the same shoes as you. I too have PCOS and I too am Hypothyroid (Hashimotos, actually). My immune system has all but DESTROYED my thyroid. I take 250mcg of Synthroid per day, I am also on Metformin for my PCOS - working on titrating up to 2000mg/day - It really messes with my tummy so it's been tough. I want to tell you that I have finally found a solution that works for me - Medifast. I have been on it for 5 weeks and am down 18 lbs. I go to the center, it's expensive but worth every penny. When I started I had 130 lbs to lose. I know that I will get there. You will too. The best diet for people with PCOS is low carbohydrate. If you don't want to do Medifast, look into South Beach or Atkins. You will see wonderful results. The key for me though was the accountability of the Weight Loss Center. I wish you the very best of luck and please friend me if you'd like. :)

Sounds like he is refusing to act like a professional: perhaps you should refuse to pay his bill. And report his to the AMA ethics committee. You are spot on: what a douche.

You were kind when you said Douchebag. That word is too good for him. You need to go to some of the reports that are online and rate him. Bedside manner requires some tact, which he does NOT possess. Rude.
Imagine being his wife or child...poor folks.

I believe in the power of prayer, and the power of our will that He gave. YOU can do anything you put your mind to. It will take awhile but I believe you can do it!
This is the first time to your blog, but it won't be my last!

I've been stuck myself at 269-272. It just bounces around randomly. I'm ready to leave the '60's and embrace the 50's. The inches are coming off so I am hopeful that the scale will follow suit.

Gahh!! This has me in tears!! The struggle to have children is probably the hardest thing I've dealt with in my life. This coming from a woman who survived about 7 years of physical and mental abuse and never knowing if I'd live through it. I can't begin to imagine my endo dr talking to me like that~ I would have lost it!! Please find a new dr right away!! Mine is the most loving, comforting man which is what you need going through all this. So many people take getting pregnant/having children for granted but you have THE best reason to reach your goal!! Guess what~ You WILL do it! Don't give up and just take all the frustrations in stride. You will make mistakes along the way but you will learn from them. You have a wealth of resources on this website and the best part is the people~ they will stick with you through anything and encourage you all the way. I have faith in you~ just keep your head up and keep on swimming like Dory the fish says! lol

I've never read your blog before, but you are awesome and you're totally right that "doctor" is a major douche. You can do it. Not rocket science, you know what you have to do :) Anyone who says you "need" surgery to lose weight is only trying to make money off you. Good luck girl, I think you're going to shine :)

It is douchebags like him that motivate us. I am sad that you had to experience this, but excited for you to prove him wrong. What an asshat. Karma will get him.

I will pray that Heaven will give you the army you need to prove this horrible, horrible Doctor wrong. He needs to humble himself.You are a beautiful woman and your blog brought me to tears! BUT, tears of hope, for you, for me, for anyone who has ever been told not to hope.

I also had a FORMER doctor make me cry due to his lack of empathy. Never again! I have complete faith that both of us will win this battle.

I have a good friend who works for the Department of Public Health in CT. She would strongly recommend (and I would, too!) that you report this arsehole. I'm so sorry you had to deal with this; I don't know you, but NO ONE deserves to be treated like that by a trained professional. You are a PERSON. And probably a really nice one who was looking for some genuine guidance. Eff that guy. Report him to your local DPH. HUGS to you.

That man should not be a doctor. Prove him wrong! You can do it!

Wait, you're around 250 and he said it would be impossible to lose weight without surgery? They let this clown into med school? You can absolutely lose that amount of weight through diet and exercise. I would report him to your state medical board, and find out if he is part of any endocrinology associations that might be interested in having a record of his poor, pro-unnecessary-surgery behavior too.

You are AWESOME!!! Through God all things are possible. So sorry you had to deal with a jerk like that. I can't stand it when some people don't show a little compassion for others. It really isn't hard. I think there are some that just don't have the heart to show it, and never even think about how much damage they can do to someone that is not so self motivated.
You are different and I can tell. You stay motivated, and get that weight off. I have 100+ to lose also. Together, we will do it.
God bless you!!!

I saw your post mentioned in the "Popular Blogs" section on the homepage and had to reply. I have PCOS too and have seen my fair share of horrible, arrogant twunts masquerading as doctors. DO NOT LET THIS JERK GET YOU DOWN. You can and will do this, take it one day at a time and don't let anyone try to steer you off course. Good luck!

I would totally report that douche-imagine all the people he treats like shit just because he can and they are too intimidated to speak up! I know you will lose this weight now and more power to ya! Can't wait to read your post in a year once you have re-visited the douche bag's office!!!! Go girl!!

Your pals are always here. And their is always another doctor. You're a woman and we can do anything we set our minds too. Trust me his life is in the sh--ter so he wants you to feel the same. Don't let him take you with him look me up on MFP and I'll be there for you.

I am an RN and I am sooo disappointed by MDs.

My husband has chronic issues and we are constantly being sent to a different MD and none of them seem to talk to one another! Plus, MDs are so specialized my hubby had to see 2 different ENTs (one to take care of sinus issues - "N" and one to look at his ears - "E"). These 2 said the problem was throat "T" and he needed different ENT! I had to literally break down, cry and yell in 2 different MDs offices to get then to talk to one another to coordinate care!

Send a letter to the state board of medicine regarding the MD. You never know, you may be the complaint that tips the scales.

And keep doing what you are doing. Stay motivated and the weight will come off.

God bless.

That's pretty much how my endo appointment went. Went to my regular dr. and they're 'absolutely positive' that i have thyroid issues... so they take more blood than any of the nurses had ever seen drawn from one person in their careers (they all agreed). Blood processed show some off kilter numbers. When i got to the endo's office, he said that the numbers from my dr's blood draws are always off by that exact amount (about a 20% variation) and it's because of the way they run some of their tests. Endo told me if I was tired all the time and didnt feel well that I needed to 'just get used to it... we're all tired'. I'm still pissed!

WOW...total jerk. I am so glad the other doctor you went to cares for his patients. You CAN definitely do this on your own without any type of surgery. Stay focused and surround yourself with supportive people. Watch those pounds come off!

With tears in my eyes for you. Big [HUGS]

I rarely comment on blogs of people I don't know, but this just moved me. I'm so incredibly angry at that doctor for telling you that you couldn't lose 115 lbs! Of course you can!! People on here do it EVERY day! Is it quick & easy? No. Is it worth it? Yes. Stay strong & prove that d-bag wrong!!

I hope you did not pay for that kind of treatment. I would call my insurace and explain what happened and have his claim denied. If you are billed send it back with a letter explaining what happened and why you are not paying. done this twice over miss treatment by medical personnel. Once for my child and once for my parent. You would be suprised at how effective it is.

Wow, that is crazy that a DOCTOR would say something like that. He is supposed to be there to HELP people, not crush them! What an @**hole! Prove him wrong! He said you couldn't? Well you CAN and you will!

Just because somebody is good at passing exams doesn't mean they will be good at the job. I saw a GP who was a nasty spiteful little man, I was warned not to see him but I thought I'd make my own mind up. I saw him and he made me feel 100 times worse than before (even to this day). He wrote up a report incorrectly in his favour and refused to change it. Even the practise Manager said he was a complete "S--t".

So there you go it doesn't matter what the profession is, people not fit for the job will always get through the net!

Sorry you had a bad experience!

I am glad you went back to your other Dr. You can do it. Keep trying. I have medical problems and I have left a doctors office crying befores so I know where you are coming from. Find a Doctor you like. I wish you the best and I will try to see what you have lost. Best of luck!!!

I don't know you, but stumbled on this and just had to share. I read in Us Weekly a few weeks ago about some Real Housewives of New Jersey or something's daughter who got a Lap Band because she was *gasp* 185lbs at 5'3". Her "amazing" results concluded in a 20 pound weight loss in 7 months. I thought, get real. Anyone with any determination could lose 20lbs in 7 months, especially if you have $15,000 for surgery, you could spend that on a personal trainer AND a personal chef AND a nutritionist. Good luck. Prove Dr. Douchebag wrong!

I have Hypothyroidism & have lost 44lbs just eating
Right & exercising a lot & I mean a lot lot..
My doctor also said that it would be near impossible
to lose all the weight I've gained but, I lost it all
and so much more. Don't give up, its very possible
to lose the weight it's gonna be hard but it will
definitively be worth it! I'm here if you need help!

Save your blog post for inspiration.

HIT your goal weight and hit it hard. No prisoners.

Go back to Dr. Douche (be polite, make a 'follow-up' appointment).

Give Dr. Douche, MD a copy of this post, before and after pics and a...smile.

As you walk out, remember to thank him. Something along the lines of, "thanks doc, for being such an ass that I couldn't possibly take your advice or take you seriously. I would have never made it".

*** don't forget to smile. Chin up, sweetie! :)

Take it from me, you CAN do this. I weighed over 300 lbs in January. My doctor did NOT recommend any sort of surgery. He believed that my weight was partly side effects from medication and partly lack of exercise combined with too many calories. Now I weigh 248; I exercise everyday, watch my calories, and he could not have been happier.

As an endocrinologist, he should have been aware of the many different factors that contribute to obesity. Not all overweight people belly up to the buffet 7 times a week.

Fire this jerk and get your nice doctor to give you a referral, just to make sure that there isn't an underlying condition that would make it harder for you to lose weight.

And hold your head up high. You are a winner!

You can do this! That doctor is jaded and tired and should retire. Just do this.. not to prove him wrong though, but to prove you right.. do this for YOU.
I sort of think this is a great thing to have happen to you. Maybe this is your true A HA moment. You will definitely succeed now out of spite!

Go get em!
Find a good nutritionist, get into a work out program and just move. You can do this with the out pouring of support that I've seen here today. You WIN@
Friend me if you want more support.

Had to comment, as I have been seeing many specialists since developing low thyroid/chronic fatigue symptoms. He was treating you like a statistic, not an individual human being. Lots of arrogant, burned out, impersonal doctors out there who base their treatment on medication or surgery. He's had little to no education in diet and nutrition so he's not going to send you down that path.

No reason you cannot reach your goals with a healthful lifestyle! It's the best thing you can do for yourself, and if you require medication while reaching your goals, it will be minimal. If you have thyroid symptoms, do learn your numbers TSH, T4, T3, and treat accordingly. Good luck!
Your determination will redefine the rest of your life.

What a total JERK! What docs fail to remember is that they work for US. THEY work for US. Of course he is wrong .. you CAN DO IT! Take this motto and run with it: If you want me to do something - tell me I can't.
So .. GO GET WITH IT ! I will help you in any way that I can ! BAM! You are in the 250s now? I started aat 236. OF COURSE YOU CAN DO IT! And .. when you DO. I'd book another appt. - strut in and throw your before pic at the doc. K ??

Jen

It seems we are all struggling to loose weight. I too am very overweight and am in a program currently which I hope will be successful. I know that if you are diligent and stay true it can be accomplished. I'm rooting for for, and I know you will reach your goals. Keep up the good work.

HUGS!! I'm sorry for your bad experience with the endocrinologist. But what a heartwarnming and supportive team at your regular Doctor's office!!!
You can do this. best of luck.

Our society treats doctors as if they are gods. Unfortunately, a few of them let that go to their heads. They become arrogant and uncaring. They see themselves as infallible.

My Mom went to her doctor for over two years complaining of chronic fatigue. The doctor refused to take her seriously for about two years. Finally, she threw a tantrum in his office and demanded that he investigate it.

Turns out she had autoimmune hepatitis. She eventually developed liver cirrhosis which lead to liver cancer. We lost her 5 years ago in October.

I can't help but wonder. If my Mom's doctor had taken her seriously, would the damage to her liver avoided" Would she still be with us?

This is why I don't like DR's. I've lost almost 200lbs with no surgery (378 to 181), no dr's, no meds. I'm fortunate as I didn't have any hindering medical issues and have been able to work out twice a day. I changed my diet and have been consistent with working out. No one "needs" surgery. Some may decide that is the help they need for personal reason and that is fine. I believed for me that I got myself into the mess and I would make the choices to get myself out. It is not easy but it is possible. You have the support of a great Dr, family, friends and MFP. Can't wait to hear the good report when you go back to that "specialist" and prove him wrong!

Wow!! Just wow....

Honey, you have my vote. If I'd have had the same exp. with my 'fat' doctor, I don't think I'd have had the same attitude as you. I did and I didn't want to start. Thankfully he was great.

I would be honored to be considered your MFP friend, and will be asking shortly. We both have about the same amount to lose, and I'd be thrilled to help encourage (and be encouraged by) you.

get a second opinion. and change your doctor.

One of my very dear friends on here went from the mid 300's to 145. You CAN it. I believe in you! Don't let anyone EVER tell you you can'! Feel free to add me if you need encouragement!

Wow, that was a horrible experience and I am so sorry you had to go through that. I went through a similar experience with a Doctor and it is heartbreaking. You can and will do this Sweet Lady because you have the determination!! Good Luck with all your Goals and I cannot wait to see the blog announcing you reached your goals. Then the blog that says you are having a bundle of joy!! Love and hugs to you!!! Go Girl Go!!! BTW: My sister has pcos and she lost just a little weight and had been told she would never get pregnant and Guess what I have a sweet little nephew :) Prove em wrong!!!!

I know how you feel years ago about 25 to be exact when I had my daughter my OBGYN was just like your Dr Douchebag and then some, told me people as fat as me shouldn't be having kids, don't you like that, this was after I had lost 30lbs during my pregnancy, I was heartbroken and talk about nailing a person when they already have low self-a-steam some are just total jerks. I've been overweight for several years now and developed a fatty liver, my doctor wanted to bounce me around from doctor to doctor not helping me address the issues just collecting money and me feeling more and more hopeless with every visit. I finally went to Rochester, MN(MAYO)and in a matter of a year they have been slowing helping me deal with my health issues and get things under control, they are an awesome bunch of doctors and they listen. They have addressed several health issues that were going on that my own doctor choose to blame on being heavy, turned out it was some of what was causing my heaviness. I'm now down 50lbs since April of 2012. They did put bariatric surgery as an option only if that was the last resort. They did have me take behavior modification counseling which they require before they will even do surgery, which was awesome, trust me I thought I knew everything but the counseling really helped, it was one on one and required work on my part, but 50lbs lost shows I needed to hear some things!!!! Hang in there you can do it, nothing is ever easy, but move over Dr jerks of he world we are hear to prove you wrong!!!!! My prayers are with you on your journey, you will make it....

Wow. What an awful Dr. Good job having enough self-respect to realize that this guy was a total jerk and to not waste anymore of your time on him.

Great job being motivated to improve your health. Good luck - you can do it!!

I applaud your “Screw him, I can do it” attitude. As you can see, many of us have had bad experiences with so-called “medical professionals”. Some very bright professionals with tons of book smarts are totally ignorant when it comes to people skills. As you found out, some are just miserable S.O.B.s looking to cash in on your health insurance and dole out pills for which they receive perks from the drug companies. Dr. Slave-to-the-All-Mighty-Buck is not worth any more of your time or tears; get another referral. Please hold on to your determination because you have the most precious goal in mind. All your fitness pals will be cheering the day when you can say “I lost 100 pounds and guess what, I’m pregnant.”

Wow...he said that?!?!?! Why be a doctor if you are going to have such awful "bedside" manners??? I'm so sorry. I've had some crappy doctors, but nothing quite like this. YOU CAN DO IT! And then I hope you make another appointment to see him, just to throw it in his face that he was wrong!!!!! :-)

I have graves disease and it took 6 months to see the endo. Fortunately my endo is very good and kind. I gained weight on the medication, but am slowly losing it again. I cried after my first appointment, it is hard. Change your life, eat well, commit to exercise and live life to the fullest! I have two beautiful children, a wonderful supportive husband and a thyroid disease that won't be my excuse to not make a effort. Good luck and God bless!

I totally just cried for you! That sucks so hard! I am with you on this journey I have to lose 160 lbs to be where I want to be. I am glad you have a doctor that is good to you and will help you overcome these obstacles. I have thyroid disease also that was uncontrolled until recently. Keep moving and keep eating right and you will be changing diapers in no time!

Dr. Douchebag is a very suitable name for this individual! I would've gone out to the nurses station and asked to see his manager, or talk to someone he reports to, and let them know all about what happened. Hopefully that person would have a conscience and would reprimand Dr. Douchebag. You can still talk to someone in that organization about it; doctors, should not act like that towards patients. Good luck on your weight loss adventure; you will have your ups and downs, but as long as you stick with it, you will do well. Feel free to add me as a friend if you'd like.

What an ASSHOLE. I'm glad that you've used a bad experience as a motivator though. I hate that doctors think their reputations make it acceptable to act like a douche.

You can do it! Look at how many people already have. I am proud you left more determined than ever, and didn't let him bring you down. Who knows what is happening in his personal life to make him so hateful. It has to be pretty bad. I feel sorry for the negativity he is choosing to surround him. I am glad that you choose to use this bad experience as motivation to move forward in a positive direction. You will do it.

I’m in literally in tears! He’s completely anal and should have his license revoked, there’s no excuse for an ADULT to behave as he did! You GOT this! You CAN do this! You WILL do this! I’m so sorry that you had to go through that with Dr. Anal! Dust yourself off and PROVE that jerk WRONG!!! Good luck on your journey!

What an asshat! Check out my blog or profile for the full details, but in short, after losing 100 pounds, then being unable to lose anymore for 5 years, then last year, starting to gain, rapidly, while eating right and working out, I KNEW something was wrong. It took me a year, 4 doctors, and a 25 pound weight gain before I found a doctor that took me seriously. Since starting the meds (It was an undetected thyroid issue...Hashimoto's) I've lost 11 pounds in 6 weeks. Don't give up. Keep looking for answers and keep looking until you find the right doctor. I love my doctor! But I went through 3 other idiots before I found him.

This made ME tear up on your behalf. I've had doctors that were horrible like this. They shouldn't be allowed to treat people the way they do. I was 230 and they wanted me to do a lap band or similar. I was coming out of a marriage that was bad. I lost 50 lbs on my own just out of anger and stress about that doctor. You can DO this. You've already been doing great.

I know I'll be able to congratulate you on every goal you meet so thanks to the idiot man for being such a horrible git that you'll prove him wrong. I do hope karma bites him back!!

Hi from an Aussie. I feel so very sad, hurt and extremely angry on your behalf. I would be thinking seriously about complaining to the AMA. He has no right to speak to anyone like that. What a pig! sincere apologies to animals that also have that name. :(
Thank goodness your other doctor is the way a doctor SHOULD be.
Anyway... YOU CAN DO IT!!! It may take a while, but just keep thinking about what is waiting at the end of your weightloss journey for you, there may be times when you might gain a little but NEVER GIVE UP- this is YOUR life, health,happiness and hopefully a little baby that you are doing this for.
I wish you every success, sending you a HUGE hug from "across the pond" Sandy.

Ugh, I'm sorry. I've also had jerky doctors and great doctors. You can do this. And you should send his office pictures once a month documenting your loss. Stupid jackwagon. *hug* Oh, and you can friend me if you want. I like to encourage. :)

What a terrible man, AND doctor. I am happy you are staying positive. Your story inspires me to keep strong with my own struggles. Good luck to you. I know you can do it. :)

Darling, i'm sure you will loose the weight. We are all here to help each other.
You can do it!!!!!

You sooooo can prove him wrong - he's a total jerk. Go you

Of course you can do it! He's nuts. You'll need some encouragement and support, a little help now and then, but YOU CAN DO IT! I'm with those who've mentioned Karma - what goes around, comes around - he'll get his in the end. My hope for you is that you're there to enjoy it!!

Crying here. I know you will do it!

Do we have the same doctor? I completely feel your pain. I had a doctor insist I had, and treat me for, PCOS despite having only mild insulin resistance, no infertility (2 babies in 3 years with no fertility meds despite weighing 275lbs). He subsequently insisted that since I was so fat I must be diabetic, gestational or otherwise. Apparently the diabetes was HIDING, because even after he made me chart my blood sugar numbers for a month which NEVER went over the 120 recommended max 2 hours after a meal he started talking about putting me on an insulin pump for my Phantom Asymptomatic Diabetes. WTH?!? So I went to a different doctor. Immediately. Who agreed that I probably don't have PCOS but am likely pre-diabetic with some impaired glucose issues. She, however, noted that every single symptom I had was directly attributable to hypothyroidism.... and medicated me. I've started running and have lost 20lbs in 6 weeks. You can totally do it. Don't let the bastard wear you down.

What a horrible individual that doctor is!

I would complain about him to your state board. Is this his office or does he work for a larger clinic? Can you issue a complaint to your insurance carrier? There are also rating sites for physicians online. Did your current doctor refer you? Then tell him about it too!

Thank goodness you have one good doctor!

YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!
Evidently he couldn't do it without surgery. I have worked in an endocrinologist office & my doctors would never treat people in this manner. Find another doctor...

You CAN lose the weight. That idiot doesn't know what he's talking about it. Can't wait til you can throw it in his face!

What a total A$$!!!!!

As for losing weight, YOU DO IT GIRL!!!! AND, I would go to a different Endocrinologist and an OB/GYN about your Thyroid and PCOS and when all things work out for you, you go back to this Dr. Douche and SHOW HIM he was WRONG!! Heck, I woudl go as far as writing a letter dis-proving him as a national renowned Dr but, anyway...

GO GET what you want girl! You can do it and just keep thinking about that dr everytime you want to give up and keep pushing! YOU GOT THIS GIRL!!!!

I still cant believe he was like that...I just went to an Endocrinologist and she was AWESOME!! Went for my follow-up and she was even better. She talked to be for at LEAST 45 minutes the first visit and 30 the 2nd!!

GOOD LUCK CHICA!!!!

YOU CAN DO IT. Just take one day at a time.

Your story brought tears to my eyes and choked me up. I can barely believe any doctor could even think about saying such destructive, negative words to any patient! Bedside manner? He's severely lacking. But I see so many people here, cheering you on and offering support and encouragement! I just joined this site today but I feel so motivated and optimistic about my goals - and you should too!! We can do it!!! :)

Its so pathetic that comments encouraging surgery for weight loss is coming from a doctor instead of encouraging healthy eating and empowering patients with the right information to get there.Weight loss is no rocket science girl-eat better,workout regularly and YOU GOT THIS.

Have considered going to a complementary/integrative medicine doctor.

They will start by figuring out whats wrong and then use a combination of medication, herbs and supplements to get your system working the way it is supposed to.

I suggest you don't pay anymore bills from him. That way you get your money's worth.

Hey. I don't normally read your blog but I saw it on the popular posts and just had to comment. That guy is a bad doctor, and a bad person, and to top it off he is absolutely wrong. It CAN be done without surgery. I started at 265 pounds (in November 2011) and I am down to 188 now. I have lost over 75 pounds and I plan to keep going for a total loss of 100-110 pounds. I won't say it is easy, but it is doable and it's rewarding. It's worth it.

People told me that only surgery was reliable. I knew they were wrong. I am doing it the natural and healthy way, and so can anyone else who is determined and willing to stick with it. Believe in what you want, have a sensible approach with exercise and no starving yourself. Keep your eye on the long term goal and be patient, and you will get there.

You go girl!! Don't let anyone tell you that you can't achieve something....you can do anything that you set your mind to complete!! I have faith in you and wish you all the success along your journey! Just remember that what goes around comes around...that MD will get what he deserves...just wait!

I Agree entirely with the previous post.What goes around comes around.I certainly wouldnt want the karma thats coming his way. Im new here on the site, just started Monday but I already can tell that this is a great forum of support and friendship that you can depend on and lean on while on the journey of reaching your goals. You are determined and have made your mind up that you are committed to this goal and you will reach your goal. No one can keep you from achieving what you make up your mind to do!! Only you can control the outcome of what happens here on your journey. :)

You need to report him to the board of whatever place he was working. Totally unprofessional and uncalled for. I know you can do it.

When you get to your goal go back to his office and say "remember me douchebag? your the one who said it couldn't be done" and prove him wrong! You can do ANYTHING you set your mind to. I believe in you, we all believe in you.

I can hardly believe a doctor would behave that way. Especially one you say is so well known. I'm sorry you had to go thru that kind of experience. It's sad when you find people that have given up on themselves. They begin treating others the same. I know you can do it- it is NOT impossible. And i love that you want to do it the right way- many ppl would jump all over drugs. Girl, you keep your strong head up and keep your eye on the prize!

Sadly, a lot of doctors are assholes. You can do this!

I ditto what everyone else is saying.
Doctors can be total twats!
Best of luck to you in your battle!

Thanks for your story. Many doctors are douchebags, if not openly, then by risking people's health with bad advice and unnecessary drugs and procedures. The more I learn about the "health" and pharmaceutical industries, the more I avoid them to protect my, and my child's, health. They do have a time and place, but I am generally healthier by avoiding them, and my child is one of the healthiest (if not THE healthiest)child in my entire town.

I had a similar first appt with my Endocrinologist too. I was there and back home in an hour - and the office is 20 minutes from my house!

I'm sorry it was like this for you. I can see form reading some of the comments here that there are a lot of people with similar health issues you have and they all seem to be doing well. Of course it can be done. There are people who have climbed Mt Everest with 1 leg, blind people who run marathons - they don't do it without help, but neither will you. We are all here to support you!

I read your post and could have sworn I wrote it myself 4 years ago. The doctor is wrong. I've lost 240 pounds and kept it off for 2 years. I did not have surgery, I did not use any diet meds, and here I am 4 children later. You can do this! I'm back on MFP so I can lose 35 of the pounds I gained back after a 6 month break (long story). Anyway, the point is...use this as a motivational tool, lose the weight, make another appointment, and throw the meds back at him!

You just inspired me to lose the weight I want to lose. That doctor has no rights to do that to anyone! You can do this! Have Fun and Good Luck!

Wow..girl. I literally have tears in my eyes. You are amazing and you got this!

wow! I cant believe that jerk! he needs to quit his job and figure out why he's such a hateful unhappy person. You can lose the weight girl!!!! and have children...just put your mind to it!!! You can check out my blog entry on how I changed my lifestyle to be healthy....

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/blog/DRNESTER

(Might need to copy and paste it..) Im new on here. lol

You can dooeyyy! :D

I don't know you but wanted to send you a note of encouragement -- not that it looks like you need it! I am new to MFP and so glad to see all the support for you. I have been struggling with my weight for years and came very close to having the surgery a few years ago, but I chickened out at the last minute. Since January, I have lost 59 pounds. I still have a lot more to lose, but I know it can be done and think it is great that you have not allowed that jerk to dictate failure to you. Keep at it!

You can do it, and I know you'll walk into his office one day in shape with your baby in your arms. Keep moving foward were here to support you.

You can do it! That Dr D was nothing but a jerk. It sounds like you need to go to this other Dr and get help from him and in the meantime check into who you complain to about this other Dr.'s behavior. It is not acceptable to act like that to a patient.

I can't print what I think of that Dr. *#%?#@!%!
In 1988 I was up to 215# after having my only daughter at 37. I felt ashamed, I hid, I was an emotional eater, my husband at the time was looking elsewhere, I was stressed from a buisness I ran with him...I wanted my life back & body back. My family doc reluctantly referred me (after failing with phentermine etc) and I went to a Dr. asshole who told me basically I was hopeless without bariatric surgery. In the end, in order to get the surgery covered by insurance, he told me to put coke cans in my clothes to make the weigh in of 225. At that I should have run out but my self esteem was soo low I would have jumped off a bridge. I had the surgery, suffered 9 days in hospital & horrible scar from total bypass. In the first year I went to 170# but looked great. Surprise....the insurance weight guidlines were way off. I weighed 145 in my youth & starved myself to be 5'8" 125#. :-(
170# was great...lots of compliments, fit into nice clothes, husband looked at me again. Problem was I was resentful of those who turned their backs on me when I was fat. Also, I could no longer tolerate raw veggies, meats, firm fish.....and I was soo hungry I started eating toast....to soothe my stomach and to soothe my emotions again. I gained weight. After every leg surgery (thank you husband #1 for beatings) I gained 20# & lost 10. See where this is going? I'll save you years of struggle. When I joined this MyFitnessPal a few months ago, I was 253 # at 60 yrs old. Just prior I had an upper GI to make sure my "pouch" was still ok. I had gone for an evaluation to undergo a re-do of my bariatric surgery. The Dr. at University of Washington told all of us at the informational seminar we would be instructed to maintain a 1000 calorie diet for 6 months before surgery, work with a nutritionist etc. I was the smallest of the people there. I realized the only reason surgery works is pain & trouble eating anything but liquids & grueling for the first test. After, if you don't really have a grip on nutrition etc. you gain back more than you started with. There were a lot of people who did that.
Anyway, my goofy friendly Dr. who told me my pouch & prior surgery from '88 was just fine and what about trying to just not eat a little less every day? I looked at him and before I could loose my temper and get defensive, I saw what he was trying to say. We talked an hour...he cared & explained that if I could substitute a easy to digest proties snack for the toast....like string cheese, I could find I'm less famished. He also confirmed I needed b 12 injections (I give myself) because I had mal-obsorbsion issues.
He digested counting calories with an app. because its easier.

I did these simple things. No pills, no diet, I just started plugging in what I ate, lost my bulimia, I'm feeling better with lower carbs, higher protien and I have become VERY AWARE of my nutrition.

Since I started using this app I have lost 32# and continue to loose a pound or two a week.

I should NEVER have let them modify my perfectly designed body, and neither should any of you get modified. It hurts you in the long run & a vitamin pill will never make up for it!

Call me if you need to talk. First email me at cjcseattle@ yahoo.com

I don't know if this will ever get read but it felt damned good getting in my 10 cents.

Love,
Cynthia

You can do ANYTHING you desire. To help stay on track, be sure to celebrate every victory and accomplishment no matter how small - daily.

experienced the same thing at a foot dr seeking help, he made me feel like pond scum after the apt, no one should ever be belittled like that. i blogged about the proctologist, er pediatrist too ;)you go girl.

I am sorry to hear about your experience with the Doc. I had a great weight loss experience using the Ideal Protein Diet! I lost 65 pounds and have kept it off for the past three years. It was so easy and I felt great! Google for a clinic in your area!

That's horrible. You should file a complaint. Be it with the doctor's office or whatever. Do not let this discourage you. Keep doing what you're doing. You can do it. Surgery is not required (perhaps in some circumstances, but not in yours!)

If you have a good relationship with your own primary care physician, you might have them recommend another doctor.

Good luck!

I just read your blog and can't believe it! How rude!
1. I have an underactive thyroid and PCOS! To say you can never lose weight is a complete lie. Once you are on the right medication for your thyroid, the only thing you need to control is food cravings. Get on a good diet, find what works for you. I eat six times a day, three meals, Breakfast, Lunch and Dinner, and snacks in between. My snacks include fruit and a few nuts. The other thing to do is join a gym and attend at least three times a week! You do this and focus and the weight will start dropping off you in no time. I have dropped a dress size in 4 weeks!
It really is about control and focus...
You can always come here to find people who will encourage you on your track. Don't lose hope and don't let anyone tell you it can't be done, cause that is a lie!
It already sounds as if you on on the right track just by your determination and that is just the right attitude to have!
You can add me, if you like to your friends list!
I know exactly what your going through because I have the same problem and we can encourage each other!

Very well done!! You will do this and you Will prove the Dr Douchebag wrong!!

When, not if, when you lose the weight, go back to him with your new hot body and say, "hey dr......remember me, the lady who couldn't do it? and LAUGH."

Whatever else you do, write a complaint about him to his hospital and copy it to his professional licensing body. We dont need medics like him. I hope you find some strength from all these posts!

You can do this. You can SOOOOOO do this! And find a different dr than that to see. He is a toad. Love you sweetheart. Don't give up. You got this. He is wrong.

I don't know you, but I saw your post and wanted to say that you are strong for keeping your head high. I had a similar experience with my doctor and he basically just told me to lose weight. No help or guidance whatsoever. It was as if he was thinking that I would never be able to do it and just saying that to get out of there. You can definitely do it! I have PCOS as well and trying to lose some weight before trying for a baby. Good luck to you!

Wow - i have PCOS also & wanted to encourage you that it IS possible to get pregnant without surgery or other interventions! (2 babies to prove it!) i have noticed that it is harder for me to lose weight, but determined in my mind that i could do it & realize that this is a lifestyle change for me. i'm not trying to get on a soapbox at all, just i have family history that i don't want to repeat & losing weight is a major factor in this. Please feel free to add me as a friend if you'd like.