Just Gotta Laugh It Off...
I swear I NEVER thought that cheaters post would go where it has....
But this is my blog and its my business so if you can't make a constructive comment, dont make one!
I do my best to be careful when I say truthful things. Those in my personal life know how well I can cut you at the knees with my tongue. But don't get it twisted, this is not something that I am proud of. So I am doing my best to curtail the slice and dice...
HOWEVER, that does not mean that I will refrain from giving my opinion. Too many fake people out there, giving and taking credit where it isnt due, offering advice they know they don't take, and saying the nice thing to save face.
Well, I say EFF that. I will always be honest because that means I am being true to myself. For YEARS, I sugar coated, and said the nice things and had them said to me...it wasnt until I grew balls and started being real that people started being real back. Sure, it hurt. But I didnt start growing as a person until I had to deal with the UGLY TRUTH of things.
Its definitely ok to disagree with me, I dont mind that at all-as you can see, I love a debate. But don't argue about my character, argue the issue. And dont tell me you dont like to debate while debating an issue. And dont tell me how to support people by your means. we each have our own way. This is mine.
I have learned today that things can be misconstrued, taken offensively, and feelings can get hurt. This makes me all the more conscious of carefully choosing my words. BUT I have also learned that some people will continue to change the face of their misery by poking at other people. I like to think I dont poke at people, I poke at issues. Apparently, some dont like the issues I poke at. To each his own.
I've said it before and I'll say it again, I mean no harm. I come from a genuine place of concern and I am always looking for ways to better the situation, educate the masses and grow as a person. But like my tagline says. ENTER AT YOUR OWN RISK.
Those who choose to enter and then be offended, the most you will get from me, moving forward, is a chuckle.