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What Choice Do I Have?

It was so great to get all the positive feedback from my post earlier this week! But I got a few questions from people who thought it might be difficult to keep up my new lifestyle for 6-7 years...or more.

I don't think I have a choice. Do you?

What...am I'm going to go from weighing almost 200 pounds to my future goal weight (which I set at 150, but might actually be 140...we'll see what's up when I get there) and then stop exercising? Stop being healthy? Would I really do this when I've finally found what gives me results? When I finally feel better about my appearance than I have in years?

There is not a brownie in the world or a heap of French fries so appealing that could ever make me stop what I'm doing.

For me - and I am very thankful for this fact - it was never about eating lots of unhealthy foods. If you know me, you know I've been a pescatarian for 20 years, eat very little processed foods and no sweets. I don't salivate when I see chocolate...I know, I'm a freak of nature. Thank goodness, though! I think I'd have even more work to do if treats appealed to me.

I did, however, drink lots of diet pop, too much alcohol, didn't measure or track my food quantities and didn't exercise enough. And on Fridays, I pretty much said to heck with sensibility and find myself eating Veggie Lo Mein for lunch, pizza for dinner and lots of cocktails, just to blow off steam. I still have a little pizza and vodka on Friday nights, but I haven't ordered Chinese for lunch since I started this thing. On Fridays, I'll bet I consumed enough calories that I was easily packing on an additional pound each week.

So, aside from my Friday overhall, this modification to my lifestyle has been pretty simple, and I kick myself for not figuring it out sooner.

If you're someone who struggles with food, I want you to know, I am here for you. I will gladly listen to you and support you.

But for me, I visualize myself in those dream jeans, neatly folded in my closet, waiting for me to put them on for the first time, and there is NOTHING I want to eat that could make me feel better than that!

So, what choice do we really have besides making this the time we try and truly, permanently succeed?

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8 comments:

lesita75 wrote 12 months ago:
Very well said.
cdhaverland wrote 12 months ago:
I think that’s where most of us get into trouble, we don’t think of this as a lifestyle change. Most of us think in the short term....when I reach my goal I can relax and everything will be perfect. That’s why so many lose the weight only to gain all or more back. We have to make permanent changes or we’ll wind up right back where we started.
futuresize8 wrote 12 months ago:
You are so right...this is what I have to do to have the life I want forever!
kaetmarie wrote 12 months ago:
I am in love with this post. It sounds exactly like me and how I've done this. You have a fantastic attitude!!
jen9506 wrote 12 months ago:
I think the key is to do in such a way that it can become a lifestyle you will stick with. I lost a ton of weight years ago but didn't keep it off because it was too draconian ... this time I want to do it the right way and make changes I know I can stick with. Thanks for the post, very thought-provoking!
kinkygurlz wrote 12 months ago:
We all have a choice. We can choose to continue doing what we have been doing and continue getting the same results. Or we can choose to make a change and change the results we have been getting. Life is all about choices. I love your outlook and your posting hit the nail on the head for me. I choose to make a change! Future size 10 (smile).
tdill8890 wrote 12 months ago:
This is so true! I've finally decided to make this a lifestyle change instead of just dieting. I've been on a roller coaster for a lot of years. I'm slowly starting to see results and I don't want to blow it now! Thanks for the timely post. :-)
futuresize8 wrote 12 months ago:
You guys are totally right...and doing this slow and steady and sensibly is the key, I think. Plus being here with all these supportively awesome people...huge! To those of you who sent me a friend invite, I usually sent a hello-thanks for adding me note, but the feed is down! So...if you check back here and see this, know that I'm happy to support you on your goals and look forward to lots of high-fives!

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