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Unsolicited Lifting Advice in the Gym

Thought I'd share my funny gym story from this morning. This doesn't happen often so when it does it makes me laugh.

 I'm in the gym, doing OHP. Aiming for 5 sets of 3. Always done heavy weight, low reps (<6), love it, prefer it this way, gets me the best results... Random guy is doing leg press next to where I'm pressing. Don't remember seeing this guy before but I don't think he's a newbie as he seemed to know a regular. I can see he watches a few of my sets.

After the third set he tries to give me some (IMO really bad) advice on lifting, and what would be best for me. Convo goes a bit like this:

Him: You know, you'd be better off doing some lighter weight and more reps, rather than 2, 3 reps.

Me: Hmm. I like it this way. Gets me stronger, faster.

Him: Not really. It'd work just as well with higher reps. (He said something about 5's or 10's, didn't hear exactly what)

Me: I do 5 reps sometimes.

Him: No, I mean 10. You'd be best off doing 3 sets of 10 and then moving up.

Me: Noooo, I like this way. Lower reps works best for powerlifting.

Him: Well, yeah if you want to go into that

Then I said something about having that as a goal and wanting to compete sometime this year. 

o.O

What the hell did he think I meant by "getting stronger"? I don't want to get stronger at lifting a weight 10 times, I just want to get plain strong!

Note to people that think they're helping. IF you're going to give advice that I didn't ask for (which I'd rather you didn't) at least know who I am well enough to know the sort of goals I have, and what I want to get out of my lifting before you start spouting off stuff about lighter weights and higher reps being "good for me"

I really wish I'd asked him at the beginning, why he thought it would have been beneficial. I'd have loved to hear his reasoning on it, since even if higher reps did improve my strength as easily as lower reps (it doesn't!) there would still be no reason to change unless something was actually better.

 

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8 comments:

lacurandera1 wrote 3 months ago:
People are douches. I've been lucky so far in that none of the men at my gym have had any dumb to offer.
HeidiMightyRawr wrote 3 months ago:
My gym's really good normally, a lot of great guys there. I've been a member for 3 years in May and I think this is only the 2nd or 3rd time I've heard such advice, so overall, pretty good I think.
theironpenguin wrote 3 months ago:
I had an argument with a PT yesterday who couldn't get his head around me doing ten heavy triples on bench. He still wasn't convinced when told him the cycle added 15kg in three weeks at start of January. People should mind their own business!! You are awesome Heidi
BusyLady406 wrote 3 months ago:
I went to an unfamiliar gym while traveling over the weekend. Some big power-lifting dude offered me the pad for the squat bar. I politely decline, but I wanted to ask him if HE used the bar, and why I might want it if he didn't. But who knows, maybe he does use it.
SkimFlatWhite68 wrote 3 months ago:
He was probably warming himself up to ask you out...
kjohnson754 wrote 3 months ago:
Happens to me a lot. But then I understand because I hate seeing people with bad form and the like. LOL. I don't say anything but just hope that they correct it before they hurt themselves. This is pretty much why I like working out at home although my father likes to give unsolicited advice to me. I've been a gym rat for many years, please don't suggest anything to me. I know what I'm doing. LOL.
HeidiMightyRawr wrote 3 months ago:
SkimFlatWhite: Haha, someone on my FL said that the other day, to which I said I doubt it (the guy was around 30 years older than me!) ^Also just had this convo :) To me form advice would be welcomed if they were just trying to help me out, and I was putting myself at risk of injury. Rep ranges however, I don't even go there unless someone asks for my opinion.
mrken241 wrote 3 months ago:
Yup, low reps are better for strength training. Your unsolicited coach didn't know your goals and falsely assumed you were training for shape or toning or endurance or something else. Certainly sounds as if you know what you are doing and the acid test is, if you are getting satisfactory results, keep doing it. That being said, sometimes one light pumping set at the end of a low rep strength routine can stimulate better results -- just my opinion, don't get hostile.

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