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Being my friend

I actually had a conversation with a long time friend and asked, quite honestly, if they still wanted to be my friend.  I had to tell them some unpleasant things.  The kind of things you don't want to ever hear a friend tell you, and you don't want to have to tell a friend.  Fortunately the answer was yes.

 If you are on my friends list here.  I will do my best to be your friend.  I LOVE LOVE LOVE to be your cheerleader.  I love to wave the pom pom.  I won't wear the little outfit...but love to wave the pom pom.


I will, however, send you a swift kick when you need it.  Which I hope you accept it for what it is.  It is me caring enough to want the best for you.

It is a fine line between a big virtual hug, and a swift kick.  And I hope I can tell when you need the hug and not the kick..... but if I miss it and kick when I should may be because I needed a hug.

 If you are my friend here, we are in this together.  Kicks and hugs will get us where we all want to be.  So accept my virtual hug right now, and know I am glad you are here with me.  Then go do something so I don't have to kick you!

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cantjustcant wrote 69 months ago:
I usually need kicked!!! Glad to add you to my list!
raedient61 wrote 69 months ago:
I, for one am very glad to be listed among your friends. It's very important on this journey to have real friends that will kick you in the tushy when you need it!

Let the hugging and the kicking commence!
brandimacleod wrote 69 months ago:
The best friends you can have here are the ones who are honest and kind. And sometimes kindness comes with a butt kick or two. I love my friends that call me out when I need it.
vjrose wrote 69 months ago:
Love it, and I have a friend we call the fearless leader, he is exactly like that, he even has commander in his screen name, lol. Good for you for saying it like it is.
Alex_is_Hawks wrote 69 months ago:
Honesty in a friendship is invaluable. Too many people will tell you what they think you want to hear. I'm very shy and non confrontational so I know how hard it can be to tell someone "the way it is" but if I want my friends to be honest to me, I owe them to be honest to them.

You are a good friend for that person to have, Kudos to you!
StarvingDiva wrote 69 months ago:
That's great!

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